sick of it Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 Ive written a lot of posts lately, but i keep coming up with questions... I know its semi-usual for the dumpee to go on a rebound to fill the void of losing someone, but is it possible for the dumper to jump into a rebound relationship? My ex ( together for 5 1/2 years without a break) got into a fast moving relationship very quickly after dumping me and im wondering if she was seeing him before the breakup or if its possibly a rebound. Thanks
omegaRED Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 Not very likely it`s a rebound. Even if she wasn`t seeing him while you two were together, she was definitely interested in him.
omegaRED Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 From personal experience. Also, you said it was fast-moving. Probably was some contact before, and there was some ground to build on and get serious quickly. She probably thought she`d be happier with him. I don`t know the details of your relationship or the break up, but from what i`ve seen and read here on LS, dumpers very rarely get into rebound relationships. If they break up citing "I need time, space", but get into a relationship very soon after the break up, you can be sure the real reason for the break up was that they were interested in someone else. Hence, not a rebound.
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