Feelinghurt Posted November 26, 2005 Posted November 26, 2005 My husband is back home and now what? This time is my turn, I'm not happy. It doesn't feel the same anymore. I don't feel connect, love, affectionate toward him anymore. He still neglect and disregard me and wants to do whatever he wants to do. I feel like I don't have any feeling toward him anymore. He used to be a very considerate person at least and spent time with me often now he just doesn't. What should I do? I don't think bring your lover back you also bring the spark back. I'm confuse now.
tinktronik Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 Feeling hurt, how long has your hubby been back? Sometimes it takes time and healing for a "spark" to come back. Counciling sometimes helps.But when realtionships are damaged by breaking them we all tend to hold little resentments, and in order to thrive we have to let them go.It seems as if now that your H is back your not sure thats what you want.This is common , wanting someone back just to have them again , but when you get them back you realize maybe it's not what you wanted in the first place. Like I said though, counciling and time may heal theese things.Good luck to you ...
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