looming guest Posted November 26, 2005 Posted November 26, 2005 I've been in a relationship with a great, caring person for just over 3 years. We had known eachother from work a year before we started dating. This is my first actualy (non-public school) relationship. We have had some good times and some hard time, but we both seem to let anything that happens blow itself over. At times i find myself hating the idea that i need to spend time with this person and our conversations usally involve alot of talking from their end and a whole lot of pretending to listen from me. I just can't seem to be interested in the vast majority of conversations we have. During the last week i have started to see one of my best friends in a new light, we have spent the last few nights talking together and having a great time, but there is growing sexual tension between us. For the last 2 years we have been best friends, drinking, playing games, talking and just doing random crazy things together and always having a great time. I'm stuck and i don't know what to do, i don't want to lose either of them as friends, but i can't figure out how to deal with the situation. I see it that either way i go i am going to lose a friend and hurt them deeply. I need help, please give me any advice you can. Thanks
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