Author feistyfloridagirl Posted December 4, 2005 Author Posted December 4, 2005 ahotmess - It's not easy, I really have to look deep within myself to gain the strength that I need to see me through this, especially during the holidays. Five months ago we had talked about him going up north to visit my family with me, and that isn't going to happen now. But, I'm ok with it, I really need to get out of this state and clear my head for a solid week and being around old friends and family will surely help that. Hang in there, girl. But, seriously, it all boils down to ME. I had to do what was right for ME and although that sounds selfish in a situation like this, it was my only option.
maturegirl Posted December 4, 2005 Posted December 4, 2005 I commend your strength, and determination!!!!!! I was in that same situation for about (2) years....... I have learned that it is not worth my feelings. I have learned to tap with my 'higher self'...I don't have to settle for b/s from any human being. I have the power to change unhealthy patterns in my life. I feel that I deserve more than having a relationship with a mm. I have since, set extremely higher standards within myself. I want a man that will focus their attention on me. Bravo!!!!! I am so glad that I was not the only one going through b/s of dating a married man! We do deserve the best!!! We don't have to settle for being second class! I am very much first class potential!!!!! Bravo!!!!!
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