bandit5 Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 okay..theres this girl I like who I know has a boyfriend..however her friends whom I rarely talk to asked me if I was going to pub night..I said okay and went even though I figured her boyfriend would come to...but he didnt...she danced with me and wanted me to taste her beer...i was at the bar with her and she said I could buy her a drink...there was another guy there who was trying to get close to her but she would almost jump out of his hands and start dancing with me saying things like help me and that he is freaking her out..then at the end she says I am really glad you came...do you think this means anything?
LN8840K Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 it could but it is hard to tell without it happening more than once. 1. she danced with you ...she is not repulsed by you 2. she used you to ward off unwelcome attention ..means nothing 3. she said you could buy her a drink .... means she got a free drink you should have told her to buy you one since you helped her out to early to tell sport, but dont buy her anymore drinks !
Author bandit5 Posted November 25, 2005 Author Posted November 25, 2005 so are you saying I should go to pub again with her and her friends and see what happens....she did buy me a drink...What types of things can I do to see if she likes me without being obvious
LN8840K Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 yes I am saying you should go to the pub with her and her friends again ..the worst that can happen is you shag one of her friends or you could use them as social proof ....I have found it's easier to pick up chicks when you are with one .......if you really wanna know if she likes you try kissing her I found that works everytime and it's quick ...it's easy ............
Author bandit5 Posted November 25, 2005 Author Posted November 25, 2005 but she does have a boyfriend...
LN8840K Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 then work on her friends ..... it's up to you .....just don't pretend like you wanna be friends hoping your ship will come in, throwing lil hints here and there .... you will end up somewhere you don't wanna be ..trust me on this....................
Author bandit5 Posted November 26, 2005 Author Posted November 26, 2005 is there anything i can do though..like is it smart to take to her about her relationship with her boyfriend..or what?..I am not interested in her friends at all..
LN8840K Posted November 26, 2005 Posted November 26, 2005 sure talk to her about her boyfriend maybe she'll fall in love with you for doing it , but more than likely you will get to hear what an azz this guy is and that guy is and how you're going to make someone a wonderful boyfriend someday if you just find the right girl and how she wouldn't give up your friendship for anything in the world .. ............ yeah man go ahead
Author bandit5 Posted November 26, 2005 Author Posted November 26, 2005 any other advice for me in this situation is greatly appreciated?
Milo Posted November 26, 2005 Posted November 26, 2005 Bring up the subject of the boyfriend and see what she has to say. In any case, eh, I can't say I find this situation all that enticing really. Meh.
Author bandit5 Posted November 27, 2005 Author Posted November 27, 2005 LN..thanks for the encouragement..I talked to her about her boyfriend and she says all they ever do is fight and she ended our chat by saying we should hang out more.
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