SoMuchCloser Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 So...here it is.I had a really good girl friend, we always hung out and stuff pretty much everyweek, always talked, did a LOT of things..up until that past month I s'pose. We use to be really close as I said before, but now we're nothing.I get jealous very easily, so when I see her with other guys having much more fun, and looking much more happier, I just get angry.Not at her now, at myself for being so jealous for I didn't know what at that time. I know I'm inlove with her now..but when I got angry all those times, I took it out on her.I'd apologize, then we'd get talking agian.It'd be like that everyweek...so I decided to stop hurting her ,and I thought myself,and just ignore her until she ignores me...ending our friendship,yes,but aslong as she's happy. I thought it'd work, she'd be happy, I'd be happy. It didn't. I she's happy..actually really happy..But I feel like ****.. So here's my question, Should I try to talk to her, apologize, and be friends with her again?We haven't talked for about a month,and I know I'll get jealous and end up hurting her again.But I really want to talk to her... Or should I continue not talking?She seems really happy, even though her and her friends say she's really sad.It'll hurt me a lot, but I guess I can get over it.Hopefully. This is really hurting and confusing me, I'm doing rather poor in everything I use to excel in because I can't get her off my mind.Please help.
whichwayisup Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 The best thing you can do for yourself is talk to her. Get it all out and explain the feelings/thoughts you've had. Don't have anything to lose and who knows how she will respond. Good luck!
Milo Posted November 27, 2005 Posted November 27, 2005 Having unresolved attraction for a friend can really make one behave like a nutcase. I know! I was that way with a friend for years and she definitely could catch the drift, even though I never said anything about it. But I came clean years later and explained why I was such a pain in the arse at times.
Liliana Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 The best thing you can do for yourself is talk to her. Get it all out and explain the feelings/thoughts you've had. Don't have anything to lose and who knows how she will respond. Good luck! Exactly. Right now she is probably wondering why you just stopped talking to her. If someone started exploding at me all the time and then removed himself from my life without warning, I'd feel hurt and puzzled... but, and this is important, I'd then assume that he had no feelings, friendly or otherwise, for me, and get over it. Tell her how you feel. NOW. There's no other way you'll ever find out!
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