dahlia Posted November 28, 2005 Posted November 28, 2005 My dearest broken heart, Please understand that you are naive. Please believe me. I married fresh out of college and thought my ex husband would never cheat. He was shy, quiet and socially uncomfortable. However, shortly after 9/11 I came home unexpectedly to find him with a young girl that he worked with. They were together for over a yr. He left me and married her. So, please do not think you "know" her. I think one of my greatest lessons in life have been that after plenty of time you absolutely believe that you know someone, but hey you don't. Their actions will always prove this On the other hand, after reading your posts, I must say that you have a huge capacity for love, and any woman would love that kind of heartfelt commitment. You will find someone one day that will make your heart sing again. Yet, always be prepared that things can change in an instant. They always will--that's the only constant in life--change. And the most successful people realize this and embrace it. How do you think all of those folks who are married five times did it? B/c they were pining away for years over someone who left them? No, they felt sad and then realized, let me love for today, and hopefully forever, but if something happens in the meantime, I have the capacity to love again.
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