ashley83 Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 So my boyfriend is on a 3 week hunting trip, and he did not get nationwide long distance, so he's been really rude on the phone wanting to get off because of roaming charges. My grandpa just died, and I havent' seen my bf in over a month, so this is a very sensititive time, and I haven't been able to really talk to him. I kept asking him to pleasssse get nationwide, and he just wouldn't do it (has the money), just cheap. I got soooo sick of it that I re-sent a text message out of spite 70 times (.45) a text, and he got sooooo angry and called me a bitch, and that he's going to block my number, blah blah. So I was like...sheesh I'll pay you back, and he's like "you better!" Keep in mind I work part time and in school and he's already got his career. I know I am going to pay him back, but my princess side thinks that he should just take it as me being frustrated. He did finallly get nationwide though, but I'm exhausted....What do you guys think about this? I know i've been immature, but he should have understood why I'd want to talk to him.
madisonian Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 There are plenty of ways he could contact you that wouldn't be so expensive: phone cards, email, et cetera. It sounds like he wasn't there for you when you needed him, and honestly, he strikes me as selfish and inconsiderate. You should consider breaking up with him, because it sounds like he puts his needs way ahead of yours.
Author ashley83 Posted November 25, 2005 Author Posted November 25, 2005 Do you think I should pay him back for the text messaging?
CoolAunt Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 Do you think I should pay him back for the text messaging? You said you would.
johan Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 Do you think I should pay him back for the text messaging? I think sending him a message 70 times is funny as hell. Sometimes women are funny when they lose it. What was the message? From what I know so far I don't think you should pay him back.
Author ashley83 Posted November 25, 2005 Author Posted November 25, 2005 In spanish I said, unfortunately I have no patience. That was the message. How should I word it to him that I won't pay him back?
johan Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 In spanish I said, unfortunately I have no patience. That was the message. How should I word it to him that I won't pay him back? If you don't have to say anything about it, don't. If you have to, then bs him with something like "I thought your plan covered that". I wouldn't fight over it. I just don't think he should insist you pay. Some people turn relationships into big accounting problems. I think he should chalk it up to the expense of having a girlfriend. If I were him, I'd take half the cost out of your Christmas present. Or at least I'd tell you I did that.
westernxer Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 How should I word it to him that I won't pay him back? No te voy a reimbolsar.
johan Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 No te voy a reimbolsar. Yeah. Send that to him 70 times.
whichwayisup Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 Yes, pay him back. If he did that to you, wouldn't you expect him to pay you back? Just think about it. You did cross a line, it probably freaked him out as he wasn't expecting such a reaction from you. What is done is done, if you love him - Then make it up to him, tell him why you reacted the way you did. Hopefully he'll listen and try to understand. If he doesn't, atleast you tried.
Author ashley83 Posted November 25, 2005 Author Posted November 25, 2005 The only difference is, I would never have treated him the way he treated me.
Author ashley83 Posted November 25, 2005 Author Posted November 25, 2005 Yeah. Send that to him 70 times. lol....im so emotional. I hate it. If we were in person I would have hurled every stilleto I own at him
westernxer Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 If we were in person I would have hurled every stilleto I own at him Any whips involved?
johan Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 lol....im so emotional. I hate it. If we were in person I would have hurled every stilleto I own at him Stilletos are either shoes or knives. One is a relatively harmless way of blowing off steam. The other is attempted murder. Which were you thinking of hurling? Just how emotional are you?
mini696 Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 Funy thing is I would take that as a real sign that you love me, and want to have a strong relationship. It would be a wake up call to me that you are really interested in me. But then I hope I never treat my GF like he has done to you in the first place.
Outcast Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 I got soooo sick of it that I re-sent a text message out of spite 70 times Well that was kind of a stalkerish thing to do, don't you think? He got nationwide after all; I think you should keep your word to pay. For all you know, you'll hand him the money and he'll hand it right back.
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