huxley Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 there's this girl at school i've had my eye on for a while. i've half-heartedly tried to incite a relationship with her; we talk every now and again, usually discussing school stuff. i've dropped a few compliments on her appearance, to which she's replied positively. she seems shy and reserved, but looks can be deceiving, as ive learned recently. anyways, on with the post: we recently had an online conversation; she instant messaged me, and after some small talk, asked if i thought she was attractive. of course, i said. (i reciprocated the question later in the convo, and she pretty much replied in the positive). then she asked if was going out with anyone. no, i said. then she asked if was going to the dance later this month. haven't thought about it, i said. she said i should really think about going. at this point, the little gears in my head started cranking, and i put two and two together. "would you like to go with me?" i asked. "sorry, im going alone." i was quite flabbergasted. now, im sure there is some kind of attraction here. she messaged me the day after this conversation, asking why i wasnt at school. she's never done that before. but i learned from one of my friends that she's quite a flirt. according to him, she can get any guy she wants, gets the guy to do some work for her, and breaks up. this seems like a pretty cynical account on his part, but i do know that strangers often approach her in attempts to engage her in sex. although she always refuses, this confirms the part of his story that she can get any guy she wants. advice welcome. should i continue to try to become more intimate with her? possibly engage in a relationship?
LN8840K Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 sounds like an attention whore ....... start playing tough with her, put her down every once in awhile to knock her off the pedestal and she will chase you but I would not put my eggs in that basket
Yamaha Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 Sounds high maintenance. I would leave her alone and she will probably wonder what's up with you. I would pursue another gal.
madisonian Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 Don't walk away, run. There is something wrong with this girl.
Author huxley Posted November 25, 2005 Author Posted November 25, 2005 thanks a lot for the advice guys
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