loveheart59 Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 I met this guy at a training course a little while ago as we started making friends right at the end and swapped numbers. Only as friends I thought. Then a while after it finished he called me and just started coming on to me like he never had in person. It was all "what are you wearing...":eek: I managed to calm him down a bit and reject him gently. See he is so NOT MY TYPE its unbelievable. Not very good looking and the thought of him kissing or touching me made me wanna barf! However a few weeks later and now ive been thinking about him in a sexual way. The thought of him touching me was so upsetting its actually turning me on!!! Even tho I know I would never do it, the thought of his horrible hands all over my body is seeming kind of saucy:( Does anyone else get weird fantasies like this or is it just me??? I usually try not to have fantasies about people I know because I feel like a perv when I bump into them, I cant stop myself!
Tiny Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 LOL pmsl nice, as they say "whatever floats your boat" Maybe as long as you keep it a fantasy you'll be ok.....
Outcast Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 I hardly think he's 'horrible'. You like him enough to be friends so you are attracted to him emotionally and sometimes it takes your physical desire a while to catch up to your emotional one.
Author loveheart59 Posted November 24, 2005 Author Posted November 24, 2005 Were not actually friends now, we only got to know each other over a couple of days. Im trying to get rid of him now because a friend would never say things to me if he has some respect for my embarrasment. Im not emotionally attached to him at all, he looks just as ugly no as he always did. If the physical attraction is supposed to catch up, its been seriously delayed. The thought of the physical attraction catching up with me is upsetting me even more!!!
Panhandler Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 Sounds like one of those guys I would joke about to my sister, and say hehe, there's one for ya. Looks like your type...hahah Hey you can't have it all, maybe you feel he'd be a good stable mut for you to use. heheh, like hey there's a lot of women out there that have sex with dogs. Maybe it's puppy love? hahaha
Altaira Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 I have similar fantasies, don't think you're weird. I find it amusing and adorable that you're getting worked up over this. Some people, women in particular, are wired so that the more perverse the thought the more arousing.
Sloppy Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 Panhandler: puppy love? use? dogs? Do you even get it? To OP: I think it's OK to have those feelings. Just go with the flow. You know you won't have anything to do with him, so just have fun with the fantasies. He doesn't know about it, nothing to feel 'perverted' about. If it upsets you, find another guy to fantasise about. Hey, I hear Nick split from Jessica! There ya go!
LN8840K Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 sounds like he's pretty good at seduction ...can you email me his number so I can get some pointers ? ? [email protected] Thanks
Recommended Posts