Mydish1 Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Anyway i had 2 nice dates with this girl, which were a week apart. Cuddling, holding hands, kissing, and whatnot. Even during the 2nd date her high IL proved right, she told me i was the only guy she's seeing from school and she thinks im interesting. Then after a few days i decided to meet up with her during a lunch break. no real intimacy happening except 2 hugs, cause that's all i initiated. Anyway i met up with her, bringing my friend along just to introduce him to her. But he didnt know when to leave so he ended up staying the whole hour with us. So anyway mostly during lunch they ended up talking more than i did, i was just smiling and listening. Anyway i'd say her interest level dropped much that day after seeing my boring side. Would you girls be turned off too?
Art_Critic Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Let this be a lession to you.. You never bring a friend on a 3rd date.. unless you are double dating.. I don't think she would be turned off.. but it didn't do you any good as far as the points go.. See if you can get her out on a 4th date NOW.. show her you can be funny and hold her attention.. your friend isn't hitting on her is he ??
Author Mydish1 Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 Let this be a lession to you.. You never bring a friend on a 3rd date.. unless you are double dating.. I don't think she would be turned off.. but it didn't do you any good as far as the points go.. See if you can get her out on a 4th date NOW.. show her you can be funny and hold her attention.. your friend isn't hitting on her is he ?? I know, i wasnt planning to, he said he wouldnt stay too long...but ended up staying the whole damn time. Nope my friend just loves to talk, as for success with women...not his expertise. But she and him talked quite a lot about stuff. Actually her friends were supposed to join us, but instead they came over to say hi and left
mattea Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 well everyone is different but personally i like it when someone wants to introduce me to his friends because i feel like he is including me in his life. and when that happens, if i like him i make an effort to get to know his friends. if the guy i was seeing didn't talk much i don't think i'd judge that or make assumptions that he was boring based on one low-talking day. but it's hard to say how she felt or experience it all. why do you say her interest level seems to have dropped?
Author Mydish1 Posted November 24, 2005 Author Posted November 24, 2005 well everyone is different but personally i like it when someone wants to introduce me to his friends because i feel like he is including me in his life. and when that happens, if i like him i make an effort to get to know his friends. if the guy i was seeing didn't talk much i don't think i'd judge that or make assumptions that he was boring based on one low-talking day. but it's hard to say how she felt or experience it all. why do you say her interest level seems to have dropped? Well just my assumption based on what happened. And the fact i didnt show her much affection, she may think otherwise.
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