Emzy Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Ok well, my bf and me split up because he said he wanted space!!!! and so i didnt contact him for a whole week..... then he text me one night asking for me to go round, which i did and we cuddled up and watched a film 2ogether as we would do normally. The next night we went cinema, and then a few days later i went round his house and we slept 2ogether..... so to me things are the same as what they were when we were 2ogether, but im a little confused as i thought we had split up??????? But i dont want to say anything to him incase he says we are "only friends" and then i would be way gutted. I really really like him, and dont know what to do.... should i just not say ne thing to him, and assume we are still gf and bf or what???? He also suggested us going away for a long weekend 2ogether soooooo i dont know what to think plz plz help or ne suggestions on what to say to him would be fab
kitten chick Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 I don't know what the "right" thing to do is but if you're not happy then you need to do something about it. You need to open the lines of communication and find out why he acted the way he did when he asked for space. My guess is he has a very different idea of what your relationship now is than you do.
IrishCarBomb Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 He is making you a "friend with benefits".
Luvinit Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 He is making you a "friend with benefits". I would have to agree with Irish. If you do not want this type of a relationship, I sugggest you talk about it with him and let him know what you are looking for.
Rickymoemoe Posted November 24, 2005 Posted November 24, 2005 Yeah if slept together meant you had sex, then he was just using you for sex all along sorry to burst your bubble but you've been used.
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