Horaki Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Hey guys and girls this is my first post, trying to get a womens perspective on this one because maybe they would understand. My girlfriend and I known eachother for 6 years were friends for about 2, and we were together for 6 months. But for the 6 months we were together i changed my life She got me to quit talking to all myfriends so i could spend all my time with her,she had me leave my roomate to move in with her and her mom. I worked so i could help pay for the rent and food in the house, she talked about wanting to get married and wanting to have kids. My family invited her to go on vacation with us and she did. She'd write me all kinds of notes about how she loved me, how much she cared about me, nobodys ever made her feel the way i have and that she wants to be with me forever etc etc. but at the 6 month mark She broke up with me because she said she lied to herself the whole time that she wanted to be with me she doesnt know how it even lasted 6 months, and this hurt me when she told me this. I ended up moving back in with my parents she moved out of her moms into her aunts apt. But she still tells me she can see us together in the future, but she doesnt wana be with me or anyone right now because she doesnt know what she wants. Yet I pay for all her stuff still, im still her ride to work, etc etc. I really dont know what to do, i'm not over her and she wants to stay friends but i still have strong feelings for her and i almost feel like im being used for my money and rides to work. What do I do ? Stay friends provide her rides and speak nothing of us getting back together and just hope it happens ? Or tell her that she is going to have to start finding her own way to work and dont call her and let her call me.( because she never does i always call her )
Apathetic Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Hmm..Obviously I dont know this girl & cant really speak for her but from what I read it sounds like she is very confused and she very well might be using you & taking advantage.I would definetly tell her to find her own way to work & to pay for HER own things HERSELF..You dont owe anything to her and dont deserve to be used like this.
Author Horaki Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 Another thing I forgot to mention was sometimes when I drop off her from work she tells me "I still love you" and follows it with a kiss, Which I do not understand at all because if she still loves me why arn't we together ?!?!?!?!
Lishy Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 You answered the question yourself hon! Be strong and drop her !!!!!!!!!
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