almostthere Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Ok...basically I have been serious with this guy for almost 3 months now. We have been seeing each other for almost 8 months. For anyone remembering my other posts about him....yes I have met the kids finally. Anyway...his exwife wants him back and he doesnt want to go back to her. He wants to be with me. I think he is slowly moving me into his house now. he went out and bought me all the things I need when I spend the night. Shampoo, a toothbrush, comfy clothes...so on and so forth. I sleep there every night. Except Tuesdays in which he spends the night by me. And he is going out to get me a garage door opener (kinda like a key to his place). So I am taking this as a serious step forward. Well, his ex and him argue all the time because she is very jealous of me. she wants him back and calls him to tell him this constantly. Almost every day. He already said that if my ex were to start this up with me again (he tried to get me back for 2 and half years after I moved out) that he would say something to him. Would I be overstepping my boundries if I were to approach his ex and tell her how it is? And why is he arguing with her? When my ex did this I didnt even answer the phone.... All I know is I am tired of it.
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 I'm glad you're asking for opinions *before* you mess up... usually on LS we ask for opinions *after* I'd say - his ex, he needs to talk to her. You note correctly that you wouldn't keep talking to your ex like this...
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 He needs to grow a back bone and TELL HER TO LEAVE HIM ALONE. He's moved on without her - He's with you now. If she can't deal with it, that is HER problem. And if she can't cope in life without him, then talk to a professional. It's not your responsibility to talk to her...She knows you're there and jealous as hell. She won't listen to you anyway.
Horaki Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Yes, he needs to talk to his ex, honestly his ex should know nothing about you and he shouldnt be talking too her about you at all unless he was trying to make her jealous or cause some sort of animosity for no reason. Of course a guy would talk to his girlfriends ex if he called because thats what a guy would do or would want to do but personally , Ex's should be dealth with by the person who's ex it is not their partner who has nothing to do with that person.
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