zara Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 ok - here's the situation, i want to know what would you do? you and your girlfriend have just moved in together and you're still gettin usedto each other so inevitably there are some arguments and making up and generally high passions. However, you have a lodger who is a friend of a few years standing who moved in a little after your girlfriend. You lodger then gets his own girlfriend who you've met and spent time with socially but whom your girlfriend has only met briefly on two occassions due to her working a lot. One night out for a few drinks with your lodger and his girlfriend, whilst your girl is at work, your lodgers gf takes you aside and says "I'm worried about you, i don't think your gf is good for you, she's a psycho, not normal, you know. i think you'd be better off without her" What do you do?
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 What do you do? Weigh the evidence - she might be right Why does this girl think you're a psycho?
alphamale Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 What do you do? i'd order a jack daniels on the rocks and ask her if she likes oral sex
Author zara Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 Romeo - i threw away his drugs and the stuffed toys that belonged to his ex. This girl must have heard about this from our lodger and felt it appropriate to comment - even though the only thing i've ever said to her is "hello, would you like a cup of tea" and "excuse me, i have to go to work". I subsequently declared that i did not want her in my house ever again - as if i would allow someone to come into my home and use my hospitality only to have them make those sort of comments about me! The point is that my bf did not tell her to mind her own business - he actually came home and told me he doubted whether we were right together - and now wants me to allow this girl into our home becasue she is our lodgers girlfriend. He says that my reaction is unreasonable.
Panhandler Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Stop hanging out with drug addicts and move on...what sort of treatment do you expect? They think you are a square and don't like you being around.
alphamale Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Stop hanging out with drug addicts and move on...what sort of treatment do you expect? They think you are a square and don't like you being around. I must agree...
Author zara Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 DAmn you for being right Alpha! lol - it really did amuse me though that this girl called me a psycho, when she was the girl who the week before was so out of her tiny mind on whatever drugs she was on that she cut her hand open, wiped the blood on my bf's new, imported white sweater and then laughed hysterically whilst he stood there horrified.
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 It *does* sound pretty f**ked up. But Zara, brokenness attracts brokenness - you should ask yourself what *you* are doing hanging around in such a context.
Author zara Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 I am trying to survive a tough job, trying to find a new one, had to give up my apartment and move in with him because my place flooded, still financially recovering from the impact that had and i doubt i would have stuck with him had i still had my own place. But outside of the drug thing and some issues with his underaged ex he's a decent guy (could use some therapy though;)) and i'd like us to work. (goodness, listen to me - i thoroughly expect a slap from my fellow LS'ers)
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 i doubt i would have stuck with him had i still had my own place. he's a decent guy (could use some therapy though;)) and i'd like us to work. (goodness, listen to me - i thoroughly expect a slap from my fellow LS'ers) Well, what do you expect? You stayed with him just for a place to live, you taken upon yourself the role of bitchqueen of his house, and you look down on him. I'd slap you, but I rather suspect you'd actually enjoy it
Author zara Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 Romeo - i didn't stay with him just for a place to live! we'd only been dating a few weeks when i moved in - so i didn't know about the issues. There was a wink after my comments to indicate that i don't actually hold that condescending attitude - i do actually love him! Although yes, i am THE bitchqueen - can i get a t-shirt with that on??? As for the spanking - come over here and try that! ... please
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 As for the spanking - come over here and try that! ... please One spanking and a T-shirt coming up then Can you tell me your size for the top? I find that one size does *not* fit all
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