joel Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 ok heres the deal that happened yesterday-met a girl offline yesterday for lunch. funnyt thing is i didn't chat with her that long-like 2 days and she was willing to meet and we exchanged #'s.me. other girls offline have been hestiated to meet guys offline b/c of safety reasons -thats what they told me. so we meet up like at 1, i wanted to go for coffee and talk she doesn't drink coffee so we walk around and got something to eat at fridays. we talk she seems to be the rebellious type-her profile says she has 10 piercings and 3 tats, she tells me shes been going clubbing illegally before-shes 19, she drinks, smokes, and does pot. i ask her about her previous bfs-she has had many like 6 or around 8 and this girl is like 19 only-all have cheated or had gfs while with her-ok is this normal girl these days to have 6-8 bfs and be 19 yrs of age-that kind of a lot. i ask about her previous dates and she meets em at clubs and she shows me a pic of 2 of her exs-from her walllet-who keeps pics of thier exs-especially the ones that cheated on her.one cheated on her-was with her for 2 yrs and the other for 1 yr had a gf while was with her-she said ah they all a holes. lol is it really her exs or is it her bf. u think that one would throw away the pic or burn it esp if they cheated on u-why u keepin it. shes chinese cbc- all her bfs have been white guys -not one asian-i aske her abouot it-do u prefer white guys and she said ah no -its all about the personality. i mean u live in vancouver and u have not once dated an asian guy-come on, i think she really wanted to meet me b/c of my profile -http://www.plentyoffish.com/member791628.htm -yea the bmw z4 which i don;t own and i did mention it to her too, and she thinks i'm rich. i think she really prefers a white guy-the ones she dated previosuly she told me were all low lifes-HS dropouts, dealers, but she wanted me an asian guy b/c i have money which she believes but i don;t. u gotta now some asian gals only go for white guys. i really donlt think this girl is my type-too wild and party type, i'm more conservative and i don;t like the idea of a girl being with so many guys at such a young age.she also materialistic-goes shopping 3x's a wk and shops at high end places too,and, not sure if she the type that buys her own goods or a gold digger- later on wants the guy to pay for her. she did mention about going shopping and me paying for her goods and carrying her bags, i said ah no and then she said -lol j/k hahah lol-this on msn. i shouldn't even have met up with her ,but i did since i just wanted to meet someone off the net. guys any thoughts or ideas - ineed advice what do u think.
crazy_grl Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 What are you asking for advice on? You're not even considering going out with the girl again are you? Are you looking for online dating advice? Also, why have a pic of a BMW that's not yours as the main pic on your profile?
Neptune Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 Well joel, that`s success. As you can see, once you get a gals attention it is often case that you know you are not interested in pursuing it. But, you did your part. You made the move. Now it is time to do it again and again and again until you find one that you really connect with. No doubt in my mind, this gal isn`t even close for you.
Panhandler Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 See my other thread, this is one of those girls I would see as ruined. It's hopeless for her to get any innoccence and purity back, she's a straight whore looking to latch onto and use guys in her convenience. She probably has low self-esteem and thinks that getting with a guy is a score or something, and getting them to spend money on her plumps her ego. She's a tasteless low class whore! I know girls that used to suck off my rich friend who had a cheerleader girlfriend, for money. He actually paid her, and she'd brag about the experience of how big he is and how he'd pay her 20$ to do it. Cause she was poor, and she was a whore...
Author joel Posted November 22, 2005 Author Posted November 22, 2005 thanks guys for the advice-yea i knew right away this girl was gold digging -she doesn;t even like asian guys- i am and she is also, i think she just wanted to meet me for money wise- yea just got oever talking with her on msn-i guess she got the vibe yesterday when she asked me about my bmw car-i told her i took the bus-she sensed it for sure-i didn;t have the car well she said on msn today that i was too immature-we were shopping past a mall and a freind of a girl i liked worked at the kiosk was there i wanted her to pretend we were a together so i can get the girl i like to be jealous- i think shes too serious type , sheltered-id din't now how much to tip-hey i hardly go to restaurants and she said she goes out every night eating out, and she said she was never attracted to aisan guys-when i asked why she said i dunno. in her pics in her online profile she has asian freinds. really shes not my type-rebellous, goes out too much and she even said "i luv money" i think i attracted the wrong girl. this girl tells me she has like 3 gfs and like 20 guy freinds- too weird.-isn;t that what u call an attention whore.
penkitten Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 at least you went and met her and got out of the house its not a total loss
Author joel Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 thanks guys for the advice-yea i knew right away this girl was gold digging -she doesn;t even like asian guys- i am and she is also, i think she just wanted to meet me for money wise- yea just got oever talking with her on msn-i guess she got the vibe yesterday when she asked me about my bmw car-i told her i took the bus-she sensed it for sure-i didn;t have the car well she said on msn today that i was too immature-we were shopping past a mall and a freind of a girl i liked worked at the kiosk was there i wanted her to pretend we were a together so i can get the girl i like to be jealous- i think shes too serious type , sheltered-id din't now how much to tip-hey i hardly go to restaurants and she said she goes out every night eating out, and she said she was never attracted to aisan guys-when i asked why she said i dunno. in her pics in her online profile she has asian freinds. really shes not my type-rebellous, goes out too much and she even said "i luv money" i think i attracted the wrong girl. this girl tells me she has like 3 gfs and like 20 guy freinds- too weird.-isn;t that what u call an attention whore
SuperMonk Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Bro, the best advice usually comes from the gut. You already GOT your answer. Your body and brain are both telling you "She ain't right for me" Go with your gut! Make her into your friend at least.
crazy_grl Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 well she said on msn today that i was too immature-we were shopping past a mall and a freind of a girl i liked worked at the kiosk was there i wanted her to pretend we were a together so i can get the girl i like to be jealous- i think shes too serious type I'm not sure this girl has any right to be speaking about someone else's maturity level with the way she's acting, but to be fair to her, that WAS immature of you and also inconsiderate. You asked her to pretend like she was your gf to make another girl jealous while you were ON A DATE with her??? How horrible and insulting! It'd still be bad even if you weren't on a date at the time. Ugh... That's kiddie stuff. really shes not my type-rebellous, goes out too much and she even said "i luv money" i think i attracted the wrong girl. this girl tells me she has like 3 gfs and like 20 guy freinds- too weird.-isn;t that what u call an attention whore It's obvious to everyone, including you, that you shouldn't waste your time on this girl, so why does it seem like you would still go out with her if she asked?
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