Bill-RiZeR Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 Okay here's the situation: -There's a single videogamer girl I like who told me that she has no clue on what kind of guys she like. -Her main thought in her mind is to get into the music business...so it seems like wants to get that done before she wants a boyfriend. -She and I are going to go out this Saturday to watch a movie that we like. -She and I get along fairly well considering the fact that we both love video games and whatnot, but sometimes I feel like there are other competitions such as a good friend of mine who wants me to get with her, and here's the thing...he's one of those guys who can "charm" women without even trying. His actions and humour are way above mine. So I'm afraid that she'll end up liking him over me, even though I've spent more time with her by tenfold. So...got any ideas on how to ease this difficulty? And since we are going out to see a movie, I'm planning on taking her to Applebee's first, then go to a decent theatre to watch Harry Potter (Which I heard good reviews by the way). I'd really like to make an excellent impression of myself, heck even kiss her. Many thanks to anyone who gives good advice.
Enema Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 I think the old Popcorn trick will solve all your problems. I haven't had any luck with it on a 1st date, but it might just be my test samples.
Author Bill-RiZeR Posted November 22, 2005 Author Posted November 22, 2005 Old Popcorn Trick? Err you need to explain that to me... And btw, there is a sad part of the movie in Harry Potter that may make the girl cry. Do you think it would be a good idea to comfort her by letting me hold her hand? If so, how should I do it without making her feel akward?
Enema Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 She's already agreed to go out with you... that means she likes you. Unless you've said something silly to her like, "Let's go out, strictly as friends!" Anyway, the best way not to make her feel awkward is not to overstep your bounds, and not to be clumsy about it. During that part of the movie (or any part), when her hand is on the armrest or closeby, just casually reach out and hold it. There, you've done it! Use your own judgement though, if you think she's not interested in you at all, don't bother. With the popcorn trick, just buy a big bucket of popcorn, poke a hole in the bottom of the box. Unzip your fly and sit the box of popcorn with the hole in the bottom on your lap. As the popcorn gets lower, she notices a surprise in the box and the rest is history.
mini696 Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 If the movie seats have the armrests that can be put up (turning 2 seats into 1) move the rest up before the movie even starts. Whatever you do dont do the old yawn and stretch trick to put your arm around her.
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