ihope4u Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 hmmm ok i am a virgin...and when i mean virgin i mean it haven make up with anyone haven't play touchy feeling with anyone nothing , i really haven't had a boyfriend.....yes yes i might sound like a looser but i had the posibilities i jst didn't want to......so there is this 2 guys that i am think to go all the way but i am scare they might not like that i dunno almos anything or that i might do something wrong:( do u think they'll get turn on or off????? sm
MnkyGirl Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 First of all...don't rush into having sex. It really isn't that big of a deal. I really don't think either guy would care that you don't know what you are doing. Don't put a lot of thought into sex other than, are you doing it with the right person and at the right time? are you ready to have sex? Make sure if you do decide to do it you are safe.
whichwayisup Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 Don't have sex with ANY guy unless you've been in a relationship for a while. NO guy is worth screwing just for the sake of screwing DO you want a boyfriend who will love and respect you? Be committed to just you? If so, then wait. There is no rush to go and break your virginity.
lilmoma1973 Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 Don't have sex with ANY guy unless you've been in a relationship for a while. NO guy is worth screwing just for the sake of screwing DO you want a boyfriend who will love and respect you? Be committed to just you? If so, then wait. There is no rush to go and break your virginity. Totally agree with WWIU .. You should make sure that you are with someone that loves you and you love them back before giving up her virginity!!! You don't want to give it to someone just to be having sex!! Your first time shouldn't be with someone that doesn't deserve your virginity!! That is a special time to be shared with the right person!! You got plenty of time for sex wait for the right one to come along!! Good luck;)
QueenieJD Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 I just lost my virginity back in May and I agree with everyone above DO NOT RUSH! You have oviously been waiting for a reason, so wait for someone you have a relationship with and are in love with. If they are not willing to wait for you, then they are not good enough for you anyways! Someone that cares about you will understand, won't rush and you and it won't matter if your "hot or not" the first time because they will realize the signifance of it. Its worth the wait... trust me!! Best wishes.
kitkat826 Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 hmmm ok i am a virgin...and when i mean virgin i mean it haven make up with anyone haven't play touchy feeling with anyone nothing , i really haven't had a boyfriend I say, get acquainted with just "messing around" first before you attempt sex. And when you do attempt sex, try to do it with someone you care about and that respects you.
Author ihope4u Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 How old are you? well thanks guys for your help. i know i am in not rush i just think it might seam weird for an 18 year old girl to not know much about all that...i am for sure waiting for the right person. it is hard sometimes tho. tnxs sm
Outcast Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Too bad what people think. They will be gone from your life pretty soon and you will have to live with you your whole life. Never ever make your decisions about yourself based on 'what people think'.
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