MrsJruss Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 My husband seems to like to go to strip clubs a lot here lately. I'm too young and have never been to one so I don't know what it's like. I'm so worried that if he continues to go then our relationship will become distant. Also, he has been lying to me about going and saying he's gone somewhere else. I don't know if he just enjoys it for leisure time or if he goes for a specific reason. Am I over reacting, or should I be worried?
Moose Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 1. Your age gives his maturity away. 2. You better nip his untruthfullness in the butt. 3. Give him more nooky. 4. Most of the time, strip clubs don't allow relationships with customers.
chrissy123 Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 In my opinon strip clubs are disgusting places where a man can get dry humped by a naked .... for 20 bucks and a man in a commited relationship has NO bussiness going to one. I'm not trying to upset you at all but if I was in your situation I would consider it cheating.(I am assuming he is getting lap dances not just looking at boobies and P.....)
glittergurl Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 I can't speak for others, but I know I would hate it. I also know my husband would be too worried to hurt my feelings to go there. So, I don't know, I personally consider it being a serious lack of respect towards you, and I think you have every right to be upset about it. How would he feel if you went to see the Chippendales on a regular basis? Did you ever talk about it with him?
mopar crazy Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 1. Your age gives his maturity away. 2. You better nip his untruthfullness in the butt. 3. Give him more nooky. 4. Most of the time, strip clubs don't allow relationships with customers. I agree, his lying to you about it is actually worse than going, IMHO. As for giving him more nooky H and I had/have a very active sex life, several times a week, even a few times a day, so him going to the strip club had nothing to do w/ him being sexual deprived. H did have a relationshop w/ a stripper that worked there but he didn't tell me about her until we were in a CR. My H use to go b4 and shortly after we were M. I turned 21 shortly b4 I met H. On my 23rd bday my friends and I went barhopping and one of the places was at the strip club. H was there and w/ his friends and one of his friends yelled "Come dance for this guy, he is getting M." So this skanky stripper went over to H and shoved her crotch right in his face. I was so disgusted and pi$$ed off. I was more PO'ed at H's friend for calling her over to dance for him. H continued to go to the strip club after we were M. He would never tell me he was going, he would just go out after work and when I went to go find him I knew right where he was. The strip club closed down shortly after that b/c a guy bought the mall where the strip club was located. He didn't want a bar in his mall. I was sooo thankful for that happening. I don't know if he would of kept going if it would of stayed open. I wouldn't say your H is cheating on you if he is just going to the strip clubs. A lot of happily MM go for entertainment. My brother went to one not long ago for a bacholor party and he is very happy in his M. He just went along b/c the bacholor party guys went. However, your H needs to stop lying to you about going and he needs to respect your wishes if you don't like him going. Until your old enough to go w/ and want to go, he needs to stop. A lot of women go to the strippers w/ their men around here just to see what it's like.
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