bab Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 One of my very good friends, E, has been dating a guy, T, for 3 years and living with him for 1. They are both really good people, and currently their relationship is fine. The problem is that they've got extremely different life goals, and I don't see them as being happy in the long run. My fiance and a third mutual girlfriend both think that if they marry, they will eventually end up divorced. E has recently been putting the pressure on T to pop the question. Should I talk to her about it, or just be supportive?
Author bab Posted November 21, 2005 Author Posted November 21, 2005 Okay, so maybe this needs more detail... They have different goals in the areas of: 1. Kids. She wants 'em, he doesn't. 2. Location. She wants to live in the midwest, he at very least wants to live on the coast. 3. Career. She's in a career field where you stay in one location. He wants to live all over the world, and actually take a year and sail around the world. 4. Hobbies. She goes dancing, no lie, 5 days a week. He hates to dance. He's a big drinker, although less lately, and she doesn't really drink. 5. Religion. She's Christian, he's agnostic. Not causing problems now, but they haven't even decided to HAVE kids, much less how they'll raise them. Do you guys think I should talk to her, or just let it be?
penkitten Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 nah, they gotta figure that one out on their own.
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