the break up!!

[sarah_LR]

I been going out with this guy for 3 month and I really like him, I think I’ve even love him, but anyway we barely see each other. We’ve only see each 2 time in a weeks, I remember one time we plan out on going somewhere but then the next day he’s would call me and he told me he couldn’t make its, cause he have to work with his dad. Its happened 3 or 4 times I got stood up, I’ve put up with a lot of this **** but at the end I’ve get feeling hurt one more again, I’ve don’t ask for too much, but he can’t even come and see me just for 30 min, it’s would make me happy that’s I get to see him, and now are relationship ended. Me as a fool I am wishing and waiting that’s he’ll well stop being busy and find time for me, I’ve call him almost everyday to see how he doing, something he wouldn’t say anything to me. And today I call him to tell him something and his dad told me he went out to the movies, I really don’t get when he say he doesn’t to be with me, but he had time to hang out with his friend and go to a movies. I guess I need support, I at this time I don’t know what to do anymore, I’m tired of crying myself to sleep cause we can’t be together…

[Kengne]

I been going out with this guy for 3 month and I really like him, I think I’ve even love him, but anyway we barely see each other. We’ve only see each 2 time in a weeks, I remember one time we plan out on going somewhere but then the next day he’s would call me and he told me he couldn’t make its, cause he have to work with his dad. Its happened 3 or 4 times I got stood up, I’ve put up with a lot of this **** but at the end I’ve get feeling hurt one more again, I’ve don’t ask for too much, but he can’t even come and see me just for 30 min, it’s would make me happy that’s I get to see him, and now are relationship ended. Me as a fool I am wishing and waiting that’s he’ll well stop being busy and find time for me, I’ve call him almost everyday to see how he doing, something he wouldn’t say anything to me. And today I call him to tell him something and his dad told me he went out to the movies, I really don’t get when he say he doesn’t to be with me, but he had time to hang out with his friend and go to a movies. I guess I need support, I at this time I don’t know what to do anymore, I’m tired of crying myself to sleep cause we can’t be together…

 

I'm sorry - did you even ask a question? Cuz I'm a little lost here.

 

So you've been going out 3 mths (HM - the make it or break it phase for most rel'ships).

 

You may even love the guy.

 

But you've only seen him a few times in the past week.

He's stood you up several times - but had enough time to go out with his buddies.

You've been calling him down, but he never has anything to say.

And last - you've been crying yourself to sleep over him?

 

WoW - so, what's the dilemma?

Clearly you're not happy in the relationship.

And clearly - he's just not that into you.

People will always find the time for the things that are important to them.

 

If you've tried talking to him about it and he continues to be oblivious to all this, then IMO perhaps you should re-consider this rel'ship i.e. break up... and find someone else who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

 

Let us know how it goes.

 

K.

[sarah_LR]

I'm sorry - did you even ask a question? Cuz I'm a little lost here.

 

So you've been going out 3 mths (HM - the make it or break it phase for most rel'ships).

 

You may even love the guy.

 

But you've only seen him a few times in the past week.

He's stood you up several times - but had enough time to go out with his buddies.

You've been calling him down, but he never has anything to say.

And last - you've been crying yourself to sleep over him?

 

WoW - so, what's the dilemma?

Clearly you're not happy in the relationship.

And clearly - he's just not that into you.

People will always find the time for the things that are important to them.

 

If you've tried talking to him about it and he continues to be oblivious to all this, then IMO perhaps you should re-consider this rel'ship i.e. break up... and find someone else who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

 

Let us know how it goes.

 

K.

 

Things are going okay...well we broke up already, but he tell me he wanted to stay as friend, I still call him since we’re friend, anyway should I stop calling him, cause the friend things is getting no more, he never call me. But its so hard forget about him, I really like this guys, thank for the advice its really him.