darksync Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 hey ppl, I seriously dont get it... my family started going to a new temple (our religion) this year and I was just sitting down listening to the priest or w/e giving the lecture slowing... falling asleep... then I turn to the girlz side and notice this really cute chick. After the lecture I asked one of my friends who she was and instantly he said "ooo, you like her?! she's my Ex's little sister" I approached her a had a little convo, she was REALLY shy but I was able to get her email addy. after that I only ever talked to her on MSN coz she seemed really shy to talk to me in person. Everything was going great, I was like he best friend pretty much. We had great convos and after a while, she started to notice me slowly flirting I said I wasnt trying anything, but she turned to her sister who knew exactly how i felt because of the friend I told. So, this cute girl found out I thought she was cute. She started getting a little distant... then I asked her if she was OK? and she replied "of course!!" so I asked her how she felt and she replied "I really like you too, but Im really shy..." so after that I just talked to her as a friend as usual and at times I started to try for her... and when I was just about to ask the question she alwayz said she had to go. After I while, when we were talking on MSN, she says she wanted to tell me something, so I eagerly ask her to go ahead, and she says " was just thinking.... and what i'm tryna say is that.... can u let me go? its not that i don't like u anymore... i still do but i just want u to let me go...just dun keep ur hopes too high....." So, I start to slowing down my typing... more, I dunno, less interested in her to how I was then she says "are you OK? aww, I feel bad now" I tell her not to worry about it. She now has STOPPED coming on MSN, I just email her tons and she replies quite happily. Her email on my birthday was really sweet too. I still really like her and I generally am the one that sends the "sweet" emails. But like, now she's stopped emailing me, she avoids me when I approach her in person and everything jsut seems to have fallen apart. Her sister says that her sis thinks Im really cute and is really sweet but she's just too shy to approach you, and she's been busy lately... The last email she sent me said: "please don;t feel bad.. i mean really, i dun know where we're going now... its just all messed up and everything. I dun want u to be sad or anything because you deserve to be happy and I want u to be. I mean yea, its all my fault .. I'm sorry.. terribly sorry. Hope u're not mad or upset with me." heh heh, soz for the long story but I like really really like her... I havnt even gotten a chance to ask her out or anything... like I said "I seriously dont get it..."
JayKay Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 I don't know what's going on in this girl's life, but obviously she does not want a relationship with you right now. She may be replying to your emails to be nice.....or maybe she just wants a friend and nothing more. I'd back off. Looks like you approached her often enough for her to get the message.
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