Mydish1 Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 Anyway yesterday after the date i didnt think much about the situation, but now im regretting it. The first date i did kiss her, even if it wasnt perfect at least i made an attempt. But yesterday things went much better than planned, we had a lot of intimate moments and times where my arm was around her and her head leaned on my chest...I mean since we had all that i didnt feel the need to kiss. Even the end of the date she gave me some orbit gum. Those were the best opportune times to do it, but i didnt! Reflecting back it was selfish on my part not to do the deed. Well i hope it doesnt impact anything between us, but im sure it did... would a girl be turned off if he kissed her on one date and not the next?
jasmine111 Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 I wouldnt, i would see it as you wanting to take things slowly and thats a good thing if its not too slow and if she is bothered just because you didnt kiss her on the second date then she has issues, dont worry youll have many more opportunities to kiss her
JS17 Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 She might think twice about it but it shouldn't affect your relationship. Kiss her first thing when you meet up with her for the third date and all will be fine.
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 I wouldn't use the words "turned off" if I received a kiss on date number one but not date number two, however I think I might be confused! Correct your mistake as soon as possible. You don't even need to wait until the beginning of your third date, because she might go insane meanwhile wondering why you didn't kiss her. Then again, maybe not. Anyway, maybe send her an e-kiss or something?
JS17 Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 Anyway, maybe send her an e-kiss or something? Aww, cute. Yeah, do that!
Author Mydish1 Posted November 21, 2005 Author Posted November 21, 2005 yes she did look a little conufsed/disappointed when i left....but looks like there's still time to redeem myself, but what's an e-kiss?
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 Well you know how they have free e-cards? I'm sure one of them has the subject of kissing
paranoidpatty Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 I'd be paranoid if a guy didn't kiss me on the second date, but that's just me. ;-) The gum was a HUGE hint there, dude.
mini696 Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 I'd send a text saying something like... "I so wish I gave you a kiss last night, I have one saved up when I see you next"
MissLonelyHeart Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 I wouldn't use the words "turned off" if I received a kiss on date number one but not date number two, however I think I might be confused! Ditto on that sentiment. I would be confused. -MLH
Cecelius Posted November 22, 2005 Posted November 22, 2005 I think an "e-kiss" is a first class ticket to chumpsville... Stop second guessing yourself. She's the girl -- she will take care of all the conflicted, wacky, self-concious, silly emotions. She is depending on you to be the man. On the next date, if you want, kiss her. if you don't, then don't.
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