salted Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 I know most of you are in this site to look for help after beeing dumped, but I still believe you have experienced the following, and maybe thinging about that will give some ideas about who the dumper feels.. I am interested to know from you who have broken up a relationship, about your reasons and feelings. We can leave out break-ups that were done because of "real" reasond like cheating, abusing, lying ect. Imagine that relationship that you just felt that he/ she is not the right for me and you were the dumber ( and didn´t have anyone else insight). Have you guys analysed this by yourself? if i start with this subject: There was I great guy who was in love with me for years and we actually started dating but i left him...why? I really wonder why couldn´t I love a smart, caring, fairly goodlooking guy who loved me? I know i didn´t get the feeling when I kissed him that the world would turn around and disappear, i was not nervious waiting for him to call, as I knew he would call, the butterflies didn´t come...I did really want to friend with him and I could imagine myself with him when we were old, strolling down a street and discussing life...but there was no passion. I have asked myself why could i not make him the "mister right"? Since that I have fallen in love a few times, been dumped, cheated, lied, kept as second "girl" and these sings have been fairly "there" with these guys but still I have been complitely lost in love with them and gotten my heart broken. Why couldn´t you love that person who cared about you so much? PS. sorry for the spelling and grammar, I´m not native english speaker
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