MaxPayne2 Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 hi, I met my current gf about two years ago. Our first sex was a casual one and we had started picking from there, and started to like each other. And in time we started to get serius about each other.Initially she didnt used to show much interest in sex, and we used to do ocasionally, but then she slowly became hotter and hotter. During the same time i had started a new biz, and got too bz in that, and like almost ignored her. But one day suddenly i found out that shes been sleeping around with many many guys, and was on a serial sex rampage. Enraged furious and devastated, i confronted her, and she confessed (partly) and said she didnt knew if i really loved her and also if that i wanted an exclusive relationship with her. And that when she needed me i wasnt around most of the time. I accepted this and gave her best of my efforts and everything went smoothly except for some minor hiccups during our relationship. I knew that she havent confessed fully, and only accepted the part that i come to know,and i knew that it could be more than tat, but i put everything behind and tried to move on. But she was in touch with one guy (x) she said she liked just as a friend. I had been too overprotective after those incidents and she was fine with it, and would never go out or meet male friends without me. Recently her attitude is like a roller coaster, like sometimes shes showing signs of boredom, and other signals (just ocassionally), and some times shes really hot and horny (according to her it was around her periods, but now almost everday) and sending me hot messeges, initiating sex every night we are together. Then one day she met one guy she said was friends with for long, and later told me that the guy was interested in her, but she declined. The guy was a frens fren and i got to know that when he showed interst she ask him to continue to persue and lets see. Whereas she told me that she declined him. When i confrnted she said she just did it for fun. On another occasion recently she went out with this guy x very late at night withouth informing me, and she told me other day about this meeting, saying he was around and we just caught some supper. I was really upset at this as she text me that night shes sleeping early and she didnt replied my messeges after tat. But she did called back when i was asleep. Im afraid it was more than just a supper that they caught. Shes also unusually horny for last few months, and have asked me to buy porno movies for her on numerous ocasions, whereas i was not comfortable of her watching pornos alone and masturbating.I would admit that our sex is not tat great alos as recently i have been overworking cos of my expanding biz and very less time for sleep. We also have a 10 year age gap, im 32 and shes 22. I cant really fathom her changin behaviours, is she really trustable, specially at this age when harmones are raging, have she started cheating again, or is shes trying to sooth horny feelings with pornos. I dont really know how to go on with someone who have cheated in past, and has the tendency to cheat again, or have lied about her friesnhips.
mini696 Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 If you guys aren't exclusive, I cant see a problem with what she is doing.
slubberdegullion Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 If you guys aren't exclusive, I cant see a problem with what she is doing. Well, he did note that they started becoming "serious" so it may be safe to assume that there's some expectation of fidelity. If that's the case - and I'm not 100% sure it is, but it sounds like it - then you'd better get your expectations of her, especially sexually, laid down (no pun intended) right away.
Clevelandfan Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 Be careful,..if she is "unavailable" to answer your phone calls or text messages,..she's not putting you first and probably putting someone else ahead of you at the moment,..know what I mean? I've been through that,. they make up an excuse, like no signal on their phone,.. or fell asleep or whatever. It's all bullcrap. I can see it happening once in a great while but not that often. Follow your gut feelings, that's for sure. If it doesn't seem logical or feel right, it probably isn't.
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