love of my life may be gone

[SERIOUSBLAH]

I have been dating someone for 5 months now.. he was the most perfect guy for me in so many ways. He has turned my whole life around for the better and i have never loved someone so much!!!

only problem was his job.. which required so much of his time that i could only see him one time a week. i would end up staying over at his place because i wanted to spend time with him.. he ended up being late several times because we would stay up quite late.

found out this week that he has lost his job...no unemployment - no nothing...now he has to try to get another position which means another state probably.

 

i want nothing else but to be with him no matter what!!! but i highly doubt that he would want me to move with him or anything since he is blaming me for losing his job now.... he has never said that he loves me but i feel that he does... should i tell him that i love him and want to move with him? or should i just forget about this ?

[scobro]

why is he blaming you for losing his job?If he is I would forget about this guy.

[Walk]

It wasn't your fault that he was late and lost his job. He's an adult, he understood the repercussions of his decisions. And I seriously doubt you're strong enough to force him to stay up late with you if he didn't want to.

 

Don't let him blame you for being fired. He made the decision, he knew the consequences, he chose to stay up late.

 

I would strongly suggest you take a step back and re-evaluate. You got to spend one night a week with him, and you feel he got fired for that?!? Chances are he was screwing up at work, got fired, and now he's blaming you for his irresponsiblitly.

 

Don't move with him. please. I'm saying this from experience. 5 months isn't long enough to really know someone. As much as you feel it is. Give it more time before you dump your own life to follow his.

[westernxer]

Doesn't sound like the perfect guy anymore, if you ask me.