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one night stand now what?


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Recently met a girl online offline. Before we met, we agreed to NSA. No strings attached, but also left it open to seeing each othe again. We are both single.

 

We met, and hit it off immediately. Had sex all night. Held each other.Was terrific. During the night, I was getting some conflicting signals. She made some mention of seeing others possibly in the future, (not sure if it was a joke), mentioned a couple times how she doesnt want a relationship, etc.

 

At the same times she also told me it was great, wanted to talk to me soon, and said i definitely lived up to my words. We kissed for hours and hours.

 

This is a new position for me. Women usually fall into 3 categories for me.

 

1. Want a relationship, and make it clear.

2. Want to have sex, but also want to leave it open to a relationship, without always clarifying it is NSA.

3. Obviously just want NSA, no holding, hugging kissing etc.

 

But this woman kept clarifying NSA, but at the same time let me know she had a great time, and mentioned talking to me soon..

 

Should i leave it up to her to call me? Should I call her and express interest in getting together again? Should i wait a few days? Or does waiting kill the attraction? Does waiting enhance the attraction?

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