Rickymoemoe Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 I recently got a new partner at my jobsite( she's leaving soon for a new job) and she is a girl who interests me greatly. She is involved in organizations that I am part of and have great respect for( This organization rarely finds young people like me and her I’m 23 and she is 22) She also donates much of her time to worthy charities that I respect in her also. The truth is I'm a bit of a Jerk, I like to mess with people and I rarely ever serious in anything I say. Since I've started working with her she's been a girl who can dish it back at me as much as I deal it out, even sometimes she can shut me down. I admit when I'm speechless its a rare thing, and I'm attracted to her strong will and intelligence. Still I have problems, She's a girl who really wants to get married( I do too so that doesn't bother me) yet I fear her past poor relationships have resulted in this (an ex-fiancé that dumped her right before they were to be married she still talks with him once in a while). We both are always messing with each other she talks about marrying me and I joke back about marrying her(This I've never come across in my life so I don't know what it means). She talks about marrying older guys 25 and up, yet she says she make would allowances. Yet overall that's not my biggest problem come June I leave to live overseas, she is a girl who use to travel around the world often with her ex but could I dare ask her to go with me in 6 months time?(Assuming it works out) Should I spend my time trying or just look to the future?
Brittanyjean06 Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 it wont hurt to try, but it seems like you just met her? correct? june is a long time away alot of things could change ...looking ahead for your future doesnt meen you have to cut out the present because you dont think it will work out...how long are you going to be gone overseas?
Author Rickymoemoe Posted November 20, 2005 Author Posted November 20, 2005 At least a year bunch chances are much longer.
Outcast Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 Can you stay in touch with her while you're gone? If so, do that. If in a couple months' time things are going well, then perhaps suggest she meet you someplace.
Author Rickymoemoe Posted November 21, 2005 Author Posted November 21, 2005 Thanks for the advice you too, I expressed my interest in her and well didn't go as well as I hoped. I got a long pause from her and then she said I wasn't in her age range. Yet I don't get the feeling its a lost cause, I think she just doesn't know what to make of me. In reality I would really like to be friends with her and just hang out, but she is a busy person and would have to make a effort to find time for me. Anyhow thanks again.
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