BBB Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 Hey everyone I really need your advice! My bf of 9 months recently broke up with me , we were in the middle of a fight that lasted to us not talking for a week. The fight was a total misunderstanding, and this boy is the love of my life, my first real bf so you can imagine i have been really upset. Here is the part where I need your help! Recently we started spending time together again(we have been broken up for 3 weeks) however so whenever we spend time together we end up doing things together that we really should not be doing considering the circumstances. Now I know you are probably thinking he is just using me but he is not that kind of guy. He told me he didn't want to see any other girls. He also told me that if I did go out with some1 else that obviously he and I were not supposed to be. I miss him so much and I want him back so bad however everytime i bring it up he tells me he needs more time to think and he says he still likes me. The other night I told him how amazing he was and how he helped me through some really hard times, I never mentioned this to him when we were going out. I also told him to just think about us for 10 seconds and nothing else, then I asked him if he had nothing else to worry about except he and I, then would he still really want us to be apart. After saying this to him he told me he was speechless and had no idea what to say ( I have no idea how to interpret this) I know he still likes me what is he waiting for ! Do I move on , or do I wait for the love of my life ! please some1 give me some good sound advice
AriaIncognito Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 Sounds to me like you should not contact him and give him the space he is asking for. Not that you will want to hear this, but if he's your first love, he more than likely isn't going to end up being "the one" and more than likely you'll have many loves after him. Each time I've been with someone, and broken up, I've thought "that's it, he was the best I can do". But honestly, it's not true. You'll find somebody. And well, if he IS the one you are meant to be with, then you two will, in time, find your way back together, but there's no way you can force him to be with you right now if he doesn't want to be, and you'll only be hurting yourself if you keep contacting him and reopening your own wounds... I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but well, it's the truth. Good luck. Jennifer
Lost434 Posted November 21, 2005 Posted November 21, 2005 before I post the advice, I want to make certain that it is good advice....... Is this guy by any chance under the age of 20?
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