Woggle Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 My girlfriend lived with a roomate that was getting on her last nerve so I asked her why doesn't she come stay with me. She agreed and next week she will be staying at my house so this will be a test to see if we should marry. I honestly think this will work out. The only thing I am not sure about is that she is originally from San Francisco and her parents are trying to sell their house and move to down to Florida(what is it with old folks and Florida). She has discussed me selling my house and moving down to San Fran with her. Quite honestly I am getting sick of New Jersey but that is all the way across the country. I have been to San Francisco before though and it is beautiful.
Hot Coco Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 I agree. I think that would be a recipe for disaster.
Art_Critic Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 Quite honestly I am getting sick of New Jersey I'm sure NJ is sick of you also I think her doing a test move in is a good thing.. You moving across the country is a horrible idea.. You need to be together at least a year ( living together ) to make that kind of move.. What is to say that 3 months after you move she dumps your as* ? you will feel like a fool.
bab Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 Don't make severe life changing decisions based soley on someone until you are AT LEAST engaged. Moving in together is one thing. Moving across the country is another. Don't do it.
Author Woggle Posted November 19, 2005 Author Posted November 19, 2005 I'm sure NJ is sick of you also I think her doing a test move in is a good thing.. You moving across the country is a horrible idea.. You need to be together at least a year ( living together ) to make that kind of move.. What is to say that 3 months after you move she dumps your as* ? you will feel like a fool. I am being serious. I feel like I live in some redneck town. Her and I are pretty much the only 2 liberals in our town. I have been to San Fran and it is beautiful. I also told her I will not move until we are married.
Art_Critic Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 I also told her I will not move until we are married. Great... you are using your head.. what did she say to that ?
Outcast Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 I think trying out living together is an excellent plan. As for San Fancisco - why not? If you're not tied to your present location, go for it!!! I know what it's like to live in a town you hate - it's bad for the soul. I'm sure you'll enjoy San Francisco even if you two do break up. On the bonus side, if you break up with her, there'll be bunches of liberal ladies in SF to pick from
Author Woggle Posted November 19, 2005 Author Posted November 19, 2005 Great... you are using your head.. what did she say to that ? She pretty much agreed. This will be a good trial for now. If we decide to actually walk down that aisle then we will move. She showed me pictures of the area where her parents are and it is a nice area.
Art_Critic Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 She pretty much agreed. This will be a good trial for now. If we decide to actually walk down that aisle then we will move. She showed me pictures of the area where her parents are and it is a nice area. I think your doing the smart way.. and she is in agreement with you.. you can't lose
kitkat826 Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 Ya know, just yesterday I was thinking to myself, "I wonder if things are still working out between Woggle and his girlfriend"..... One of the first posts I read on this board was him going off on women...and now look!! As long as there is hope for Woggle, there is hope for me! hehe. I lived in New Jersey for three years and wasn't too impressed either. San Fransisco sounds wonderful though. If things work out between you two, I say go for it.
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