jinna45 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Im 15 and guys dont seem to approach me that much. Im fit, 5'6, i look ok, and im a nice person, but do you think being asian has to do anything with it?
SexualDeviant Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 No, i'm pretty sure your nationality has nothing to do with it.. do you tend to be a loner? ^ this could cause guys to ''make fun of you'' secretly instead of admiring you. You're only 15.. wait till you're atleast 17 to worry about guys, love is a bitch especially when you're in school
Author jinna45 Posted November 19, 2005 Author Posted November 19, 2005 no i have freinds i hang out with, sometimes i am though in a few of my classes
Mary3 Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 What percentage of asian men are interested in you ? I just spoke to an asian guy and he said he does not prefer asian women....hrmm...
933KJL Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 What do highschool guys look for in a girl? Breathing?.....
Brittanyjean06 Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 eh high school guys, high school people( im still in high school) but graduating SOON:) yay haha but.......i think most guys in high school can be anal and mean...it depends on what type of guys you are talking about....but i wouldent worry to much about it, have fun
Neptune Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 Many Asian women, young and not so young, tend to have a more reserved personality thatn their American counterparts. There is a pretty fine line, especially when dealing with the high school years. Without realizing it, I amn guessing that you don`t realize you have a little more reserve and you are falling on the wrong side of the line. Which as far as I am concerned is a good thing. Young people are generally trying to move too far too fast. The sexual activity tends to be outpacing the emotional development. Be patient, don`t compromise your values to get guys.
7on Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 You could always try approaching the guys for a change.
Rickymoemoe Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 my two cents 15 is way to young to be worrying about what any guys think of you. In fact any girl shouldn't worry about trying to please a guy, as so much finding a guy who likes who they are. As for being Asian, I think that's only a bonus but different places mean different tastes no reason you have to limit yourself to guys in the neighboring area.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 Im 15 and guys dont seem to approach me that much. Im fit, 5'6, i look ok, and im a nice person, but do you think being asian has to do anything with it? High school guys, and a greater percentage of guys as time approaches infinity, look for the sort of women who already know that they "look OK". That is a great trait... that little vibe of confidence seeming to bloom in you. It is said that teen females are the loneliest people on earth, so I think you would do well to let time pass before you decide that you've been blacklisted from dating for reasons you have to guess at. For now, practice being honest and sincere with others, and seeing the good in everyone. Your social life will follow...
kitkat826 Posted November 20, 2005 Posted November 20, 2005 I didn't date or experience my first "real" kiss until I was 16, and had my first boyfriend at 17. I definitely saw myself as a late bloomer when it was all happening. I guess I consider myself has having made up for lost time since then. A lot of guys are intimidated by girls, especially at your age. As you get older, it gets easier. I would try to be more outgoing with the guys that you do fancy. Confidence is always a big turn on.
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