Smyhlh Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 I found out He was cheating on me last December. I kicked him out before Christmas. We spent the holiday together. He moved back in after Christmas and right back out. I filed for divorce January 10. For 4 months he tried desperately to "get me back." I was cold to his efforts. We divorced in May. I had it arranged so that he paid me no child support for our girls 2 & 4. During our seperation I was seeing other people, but I had him over constantly, we were always doing things together. I tried to maintain a friendship with him. I told him that I loved him, but that I needed to explore the world- I also urged him to do the same. I felt that if we were meant to be we would get back together. Then the divorce hit. All was the same for about 2 weeks. Then one morning when he came over to pick up the girls he had a hickey on his neck. This coming after he had just proclaimed his undying love for me repeatedly. He told me that he would never give up. Wow. So we continued to sleep together, even though we were consumed in other relationships. Of course just when I needed it the most I ended up pregnant. So I decided that it was time to stop the games and ended the other relationship. Oh wait- more great news. he doesn't want to commit to anyone just yet, but he moved in with her, and still sleeps with me. To top it off, she is now pregnant also. He still tells me that we have a chance, but he doesn't make any effort. I really don't know what to do. Any advice or questions???
Outcast Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Quit allowing your hope that he will change blind you to the fact that he is an incurable jerk. Drop this wretched man and find someone who has some sort of spine.
Pocky Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 You are no longer his wife - stop acting like you are - stop sleeping with him, accept the decisions you made and find someone else to fill the role of your lover. One-A-Day-Tan
Author Smyhlh Posted November 18, 2005 Author Posted November 18, 2005 That's not even half of the story. We met through one of the only jobs he had for more than 3 months in our marriage.
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