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Hi,

 

Well im in year 12 in college and i really like this girl. I have told her friend i like her, and now she knows i like her! I am at the point where i just cant stop thinking about her.

 

However i do not know if she likes me, i have never talked to her (too shy, never get the chance). She sometimes gives me an occasional mysterious glance but i think thats just cos she knows i like her.

 

I have now found out she is texting one of my friends and is interested in him. What can i do to get her to like me/talk 2 me? I am just an average guy, she is hot! What can i do to make her attracted to me?

 

Thanks

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You are never going to get her interest if you never talk to her.

 

you need to start talking to her.. swipe ner number from your friends phone and text her a message ..

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Amen with Art's comment :p

 

 

~Sarah~

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Well im in year 12 in college

 

btw, what's year 12 mean?

 

 

and i really like this girl. I have told her friend i like her, and now she knows i like her! I am at the point where i just cant stop thinking about her.

 

Okay, that's not ideal, but you can salvage it by drastically cutting down the amount of attention you give her. Do yourself a favor and start talking to other girls. If you're uncomfortable with girls you like, talk to girls you don't like. And it'll be good if she catches you talking to other girls. Give her the impression that you like her, but not enough to make you lose sleep over her. The point here is to get her to come after you, and never you after her. and, be confident.

 

I have now found out she is texting one of my friends and is interested in him. What can i do to get her to like me/talk 2 me?

 

Do NOT let your averageness get in your way. It's not a factor and neither is the other guy. If you're conscious about him, you won't be confident in front of her.

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Oh yeah, is this an american site? i forgot to mention im in the UK. Year 12 is like the last year of high school before you get your diploma. Going to college/university next year......

 

I have been giving it away a bit that i like her alot, i always tell my friends and ive told a friend of hers. So everyone knows about it, i just dont want her to think im stalking/obsessed with her, which she may think.

 

Say i text her, whats the best thing to say in the first message?

 

Cheers

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honestly, im thinking (and ladies correct me if im wrong) that getting her number and texting her without her giving you her number herself, isnt such a good idea.

It'll probably come off as stalker-like and creeping her out before you even meet her is probably not the way to go.

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