cold Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 My boyfriend and I have been living together for three years. I feel we have great sex everyday. We do everything two people could do in the bedroom. I want to know if it is normal for a man to go in the bathroom when we have company and masterbate, because he thinks someone is hot. It really bothers me and I`ve told him so. He says men just have to get off sometimes. One time it was because of my son`s ex girlfriend.
whichwayisup Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Men masterbate no matter how many times they get laid, they still spank the monkey! What is wrong here though, him TELLING you why he is masterbating and who about. That is something private and personal - He is wrong by telling you. And honestly, he really shouldn't be 'checking' out your son's ex gf. Tell him how you feel and hopefully he'll stop telling you and stop fantazing about your son's ex's or anyone else.
NYCmitch25 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 My boyfriend and I have been living together for three years. I feel we have great sex everyday. We do everything two people could do in the bedroom. I want to know if it is normal for a man to go in the bathroom when we have company and masterbate, because he thinks someone is hot. It really bothers me and I`ve told him so. He says men just have to get off sometimes. One time it was because of my son`s ex girlfriend. I hope he leaves the seat up ....
Art_Critic Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 I hope he leaves the seat up .... And washes his hands afterwards.. Look out for those goodnight handshakes Hey mitch.. don't see you around much anymore
Enema Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 I think it's a little wrong. It's fine to masturbate, it's fine to be inspired by your son's Ex even. What's not fine is: 1) Telling you what he's thinking about. (Unless you asked, then it's your mistake) 2) Not having enough self-control to wait until guests are no longer there.
RecordProducer Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 I think this is just another troll! :mad:
mini696 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Its normal to masturbate even when you are in a commited relationship. It is most definately NOT NORMAL to do it when you have company, or because you think one of the guests is hot. What a weirdo.
country gal Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Look, I dont have a prob with my man masterbating but.... 1. Dont tell me who its about - esp if I know the person ... and 2. Not when we have company!!!! To be honest, that would really freak me out. It would also make me wonder what kind of self control he would have if that chick were to have come on to him with me not around.
NYCmitch25 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 I think this is just another troll! :mad: yeah sounds like a troll thread... But on the positive side, I'm back !!!
NYCmitch25 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Its normal to masturbate even when you are in a commited relationship. It is most definately NOT NORMAL to do it when you have company, or because you think one of the guests is hot. What a weirdo. Not if you're a Catholic!!
Author cold Posted November 18, 2005 Author Posted November 18, 2005 Are you calling me a troll or my boyfriend? I don`t get it. I`m just asking for advice.
Author cold Posted November 18, 2005 Author Posted November 18, 2005 Are you calling me a troll or my boyfriend? I don`t get it. I`m just asking for your opinions.
brittanyjean259 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 i think there implying that this is not a real thread... lol honestly thats just gross and werid, are guys that bad to where they cant control it??????/
NYCmitch25 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Are you calling me a troll or my boyfriend? I don`t get it. I`m just asking for your opinions. OK sorry for that, but it's obvious, if a person can't hold off masterbating after being aroused in an inappropiate situation, they probably aren't fit to be a boyfriend..... maybe a US president but not a bf. LOL If the guy *needs* sex everyday he probably has an addiction; if he really gets thrills by playing the skin flute when company is over, he has a strange fettish. But seemingly fettish's are when someone *needs* that behavior for arousal and in his case he just seems to have a very over active libido. I suggest you tell him to do what most men *and women* do a -- have a fantasy that when making love to their partner (ie. you),they imagine it's with that guest (or other person they have a thing for)? Hmmm, maybe beating it off sounds a little more appealing? LOL * So Actually maybe it's not inappropate at all? Maybe you can nstall a hidden camera in the bathroom and when you have guests you could secretly watch it on TV. . I'm kidding .. it's weird.. but there are worse things he could be doing.. ps. something like 80% of women and 90% of men have done that at least once.*
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