How Do You Know A Guy Only Wants Sex?

[BRISEIS]

Ok, For All Girls Who Wonder What A Guy's Expectations Are, I Want To Start A List From Everyone Who Reads This Post To List Ways To Know When A Guy Is Only After Sex. Thank You

[brittanyjean259]

first you have to have sex with him , than if he leaves youll know haha im just playing.

 

honestly some guys are really good at hiding it, if they tend to bring up stuff relating to sex alot than yeah

 

just wait a while before you do anything any way.

[slubberdegullion]

You can tell a guy wants sex if he shows the following characteristics:

• He's breathing;
• He has a pulse; and
• He's conscious.

[mini696]

You cant tell. Dont try. I hate getting acused of this, even when my actions are proving otherwise.

[Art_Critic]

You can tell a guy wants sex if he shows the following characteristics:

• He's breathing;
• He has a pulse; and
• He's conscious.

 

 

Funny Slubb and so true.. Those are the indicators alright

[brittanyjean259]

there goes all hope for finding a respectable guy.......................

 

 

why do we have to have hormones? ugh

[Panhandler]

Women are boring and often don't share much common interests with men. If they do it's always at a different level and from a different perspective. Thus sex is the only reason guys have to talk with girls and vice-versa. There's some sort of sexuality involved in all male female relationships to some degree, others more passive than not. Sexuality is a part of life, and that's nothing you want to cut out of a relationship. If you really mean how do you know if a guy is plotting to get in your undies as fast as possible, you have to look no further than me.

 

heheh, I am not at all like that, I'm really picky about who I do and how I do. Cause I've had all these really pretty girlfriends, and I'm not about to lower my standards or mix myself up with the wrong person. I am not after sex with most girls, I am after having some fun, but then if things are working out perfect, then ultimately I differentiate if they are sex material or connections to other girls for sex.

 

So if a guy just wants to be friends, he already has sex with someone, or is looking at you as a connection. But any guy that's too quick to jump into sex is just very horny and easy, and I am not like that, I like to get to know a person first. I've had lots of pretty girls I didn't know well beg me for sex in pairs, and it just ain't happening, I ain't a notche on some girls sluthole hehehe

 

But I will be quick to get intimate with just about any girl that can turn me on and is my type, meets my standards as far as looks go and such. Not that I will have sex with them, that's a little more complicated issue. So the easiest way is to ask if the guy wants to have sex, if he says yes, then you know that's his main purpose. If he has to think about it, or is a little reluctant than he may have other motivations but just be in the mood.

[NYCmitch25]

Ok, For All Girls Who Wonder What A Guy's Expectations Are, I Want To Start A List From Everyone Who Reads This Post To List Ways To Know When A Guy Is Only After Sex. Thank You

 

When he sincerely professes that he loves you ..

[RecordProducer]

You should be able to feel it with your guts. But there are signs as well: if he calls you every day, tries to leave a good impression, asks questions about your life/past/family, tells you about his life, takes you out with him (not just to his place), you meet his friends, he smiles and laughs a lot while talking to you, loves talking to you for long, his eyes sparkle, he gives you compliments, and treats you rights then it's not merely sex.

 

Otherwise he is either not in love or wants just sex or is a weirdo. I think it's takes a few weeks or even less to figure where the relationship might be heading to.

 

I strongly recommend that you abandon your all-caps style of typing as your post will be read by too few people.

 

Women are boring and often don't share much common interests with men. If they do it's always at a different level and from a different perspective. Thus sex is the only reason guys have to talk with girls and vice-versa.

Oh, another lovely creature! Woggle's twin brother?

I've had lots of pretty girls I didn't know well beg me for sex in pairs, and it just ain't happening, I ain't a notche on some girls sluthole

And then you woke up, scratched your balls, peed, brushed your teeth and had breakfast....

[Walk]

I mean the girls that ask me out are hot, the hottest 15 year olds, the bad asses that want an older guy to score with.

Women are boring and often don't share much common interests with men. If they do it's always at a different level and from a different perspective.

 

I find it a little difficult to take advice from a guy who thinks children are his ideal sex mate. Especially when he's at least over the age of 21. I couldn't find the other post where the "pair" of girls were 11 year olds.

[Walk]

Which makes a great point in "guys who only want sex". Panhandlers statements are a good indication there's something not right with the situation.

 

I've had guys walk by and slap my butt before... I don't think they were interested in getting to know me as a person.

 

Or if they get upset that you don't want to go home with them when they bought you one beer after they invaded your space.

 

Or, on the way home from a date, he insists you go to his place.

 

Or his friends keep laughing when he says he say's "no.. I think your a great person."

 

It's the sly ones you gotta watch out for, not the brazen ones. But they've got so many sneaky, under handed ways of getting past our defenses. The only way I've gotten around it is to flat out refuse anything past a kiss until at least a month. That weeds out the bads ones for me.

[Panhandler]

Well I could have passed for 13 compared to how big and old some people look at that age. I still look about 21 easy and can pass for 16 18 I guess.

[Walk]

I can pass for 12, but that doesn't mean I wanna have sex with children!

Besides, I can have a conversation with a 15 year old, but their maturity level, and experiences would not make it possible for sustained meaningful conversations.

 

never mind.

[Jester]

The only advice i can give is to take your time judging the man in question. Myself, i am one of the traditionally raised guys, no sex before marriage and that kind of thing, so i've never been accused of being 'that' guy. I'm very careful about who i date. I have a tendency to get to know girls before I ask them out, which leads to other problems. Anyways, if I were you, I would try to pay attention to their body language. Any guy that seems to be completely focused on your body or a whole lot of contact with your hips, thighs, etc. probably isn't too interested in what you're saying.

[brittanyjean259]

woman are not boring, guys can be more comfortable in there skin, with girls......because we can act shy at first....guys just show more of themselves quicker than girls do...and when girls start it gets interesting:) woman are energentic funyy loving werid creatures te he he

 

i hate guys who just have to ask you" how many people have you slept with....or try to start a conversation about sex"...thats pathetic and personal ..so like i said if he does that its a big sign....

[justaguy68]

A guy who is off his balance around you and is nervous has fallen hard, a guy who runs the show and too cool all the time, usually is in it to score. Look for signs of affection, flowers, hand holding, etc. There is also a respect level, kiss on the cheek the first date, hug, etc.

[Pyro]

Ok, For All Girls Who Wonder What A Guy's Expectations Are, I Want To Start A List From Everyone Who Reads This Post To List Ways To Know When A Guy Is Only After Sex. Thank You

 

He doesn't call you much, he doesn't take much/any interest in your life, he will probably never introduce you to any of his friends, will never let you meet his family, has no desire to meet your family or friends.

[kitkat826]

Only calls you late at night on the weekends, when the clubs get out.

[Lishy]

He says "All I want is a f*** buddy"

[kitkat826]

"Yeah, I'm not really looking for a relationship right now..."

[LucreziaBorgia]

He says "I'm scared of my feelings"

He says "I don't want a relationship right now"

He won't introduce you to his friends, or if he does he treats you like 'friends only' when anyone is around.

He only calls you when he wants to hook up - and the conversations are short and to the point.

He won't accept your calls, or you can never reach him.

When you see him, you have sex. Every time. Then he leaves.

He never wants to go out and if he does he asks you to meet him at the club.

You only hook up when he's drunk.

He is interested in or in a relationship with someone else, and stays in the relationship - even when it seems a 'sure thing' or 'easy' for him to simply leave.

He takes other girls on real dates.

He only sees you at late hours or odd hours, and never for more than a couple of hours at a time.

He has no interest in your likes, your history, your story, your family, your friends, doesn't want to meet them, nada - if you mention them he looks bored or changes the subject or makes excuses not to meet them.

He will cuddle, but only if he thinks it will get him sex.

He won't cuddle afterward, never under any circumstances - he simply gets up, gets dressed and leaves.

He brings condoms when he meets you somewhere or already has a 'hookup' spot set up because he knows he's getting laid.

[Lishy]

he says "fancy a threesome?"

[BRISEIS]

Thank you all for replying to me. I had thought about it, and I said this to him when he tried to hug on me at school, I have made many mistakes in my life, and by giving you the time of day, I will be making an additional mistake. He looked at me, and was like stop actin and i was like naw, i am not the one to put up with your bull****. You don't do **** for me so find someone else who wants less in life.

[Brittanyjean06]

or he can be one of those guys, that tells you everything you want to here....and is so incredibly sweet to you, but could give a rats a**......so you got to be careful no matter what.....

[Rickymoemoe]

I think the statement that there is no way to tell is very true.

 

In the end it comes down to respect, how much he has for you, but even then that doesn't tell you anything because you don't know if he is being sincere or not, best advice wait till your married he's gone that far he loves you.