cantbelieveit Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 My brother is going through a divorce and heres the thing when his wife told him that she had an affair and had hid it for 5 years. HE went ballistic and starting having more contact with some girl, this girl even went to the hospital to see his son born. When he would get sick of being home He would go over a friends house and sleepover with that girlfriend but then suddenly he had to leave in the morning because his wife had called and he was going to work on his marriage. The girlfriend was all upset because my brother was going to work on his marriage. The problem is he continued this relationship with this girl eventhough he forgave his wife...and even denied ever having anything to do with this girl like bill clinton. So finally his wife after having enough and couldnt live with him anymore because he was always accusing her so she decided to leave him and take the kids and move to her mothers and file for a divorce. my brother has been accusing his wife of anything and everything but he hasnt come clean he actually thinks nobody really knows whats going on with his girlfriend. But its so obvious because when my brother has the kids on weekends his girlfriend is always there and there much more than just friends with her and he is just telling everyone else he is just using her.. because he lost his job and only works a bit and the girlfriend pays all his bills and his kids stuff.. but he isnt living with her yeah right.. What can I do in this situation should I confront him and let him know that I dont approve of this behavior???Why do you think this girl would allow my brother to use her like that??? I appreciate any response in this tragedy.
RainyDayWoman Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 I appreciate any response in this tragedy. good, cause you probably won't like my response.....mind your own business. it's his marriage, his divorce, his life, his screw-up. you have nothing to do with it, and it's not up to you to decide what is best for either of them. why do you think it's so important to let him know how "you feel about his behavior" when you're not even a part of it?
MnkyGirl Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 Actually I agree. I have been in a situation kind of like this. You could share your opinion with him but it will just cause more drama. It is his life and his issues. You should really stay out of it. Let him ruin his life if he wants to, nothing you can do about it. I say you just go on with your life and not worry and stress over what is going on in his...just don't care about what is going on in his life...don't gossip and get involved.
mini696 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 I agree with the above post that agrees with the post above.
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