loveheart59 Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 I saw this poll the other day that said the most popular choice for marriage was jennifer Aniston (followed by Halle Berry) and the woman men would have an affair with was Angelina Jolie. How do guys make these choices? Both of the lists were totally different! My friend was tellin me the other day that guys come up to her all the time wanting to have sex with her and she cant understand why. She doesnt want this kind of attention but it happens anyway. Are girls the same way about this with guys? If was a lesbian I would have sex with Angelina and marry Juliette lewis. Dont ask me why, I have a formula but I dont know what it is;) Some guys, please help me!!!
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 For me, the two lists would probably be very similar, if not exactly the same...
alphamale Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 all of the females you've mentioned above would be good for sex but not for marriage.
lindya Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 I saw this poll the other day that said the most popular choice for marriage was jennifer Aniston (followed by Halle Berry) and the woman men would have an affair with was Angelina Jolie. How do guys make these choices? Answer is probably as voiced by Brad Pitt in Fight Club.... "All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you want to look, I f*** like you want to f***..."
cj_gal Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 what does a guy look for in a girlfriend?..I am totally lost..why does a guy want a girl that is gorgeous to have a fling with and marry someone that is plain to marry..Is it so that other guys won't look at his wife? I am sick of trying to figure this out..maybe I should just stop...guys are just too hard to figure out..
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 guys are just too hard to figure out.. Especially if you don't pay attention to anything they say...
Author loveheart59 Posted November 17, 2005 Author Posted November 17, 2005 Im surprised you wouldn't marry Halle Berry or jennifer Aniston. Who WOULD be worthy of your ring?
patwheel Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 Im surprised you wouldn't marry Halle Berry or jennifer Aniston. Who WOULD be worthy of your ring? Charlize Theron!
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 I think it depends....is this the first or a subsequent marriage? If you're in your 40's I don't think you wanna marry Martha Stewart or suzy homemaker. At least, I don't want to be that kind of wife the second time around.
Lishy Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 I think that basically the girls who have that really sexy look are the f***able ones and the ones who look clean and nice and homely are the marriage material girls. I guess guys dont want to be married to a girl who could get any guy/a girl who all the men lust after!!!!!
Tangerina Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 Geez, this doesn't make sense to me at all.... wouldn't you want to marry the person you want to f*ck? I mean, can't you have it both ways? I know that sometimes it just doesn't work out like that, you can't have it all in one person, but if you are going to settle down with one person they damn well better be some fun in bed as well as around the house... I'm looking for both in the same person and I try to be both... guess I am not super sexy, like Angelina Jolie... no one has ever got in a car crash trying to check me out, but geez, I put in some effort...
JS17 Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 Geez, this doesn't make sense to me at all.... wouldn't you want to marry the person you want to f*ck? I mean, can't you have it both ways? Psychologically speaking, subconsciously the overly sexy lusted after women (or men) are viewed as not having the qualities it takes to be a good mother and wife (father and husband). Same goes in the animal kingdom strangely enough.
SuperMonk Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 personally i think most women are all the same so who i want to bang and who i want to have a relationship is more likely based on how they appear. if they're pretty and communicate well with me, then i'd have her as a wife, compared to a girl that is messed up or not pretty. that's how it is, and girls know this too.
RecordProducer Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 For me, the two lists would probably be very similar, if not exactly the same... Ooohhhh, how cute! I've had men who wanted me for sex only, those who wanted me as a wife, those who didn't want me at all, those who wanted to use me financially... I wouldn't put myself as any type. Definitely there are plenty of them who want to date me or just have sex with me. There are a few who want to be with me seriously. Luckily, I need just one (for marriage & sex)!
alphamale Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Psychologically speaking, subconsciously the overly sexy lusted after women (or men) are viewed as not having the qualities it takes to be a good mother and wife (father and husband). Actually, JS17, it is more the fact that these people learned early one they could get by on their looks/sexiness alone and did not develop much more of their personalities. Many of them are just plain DUMB or boring or not funny or have zero personality. So basically dumb and sexy people are not see as good spousal material. But...I must say there are a few women out there who are beautiful, sexy AND smart and these women are marriage material. Unfortuantely there are not very many females who fall into this exclusive category
elijahBailey Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 I think that basically the girls who have that really sexy look are the f***able ones and the ones who look clean and nice and homely are the marriage material girls. Exactly!! I guess guys dont want to be married to a girl who could get any guy/a girl who all the men lust after!!!!! Precisely!! you've observed well Lish-dear. The psyche of men is real simple.... The wife is someone whom we're confident that she won't stray and has a bit of brains too. And that means that she shouldn't have a slutty look that men instinctively wanna bang. The f*** chicks are the ones that we wanna bang and get it over and done with. Nothing else, just f***.
ImaManDammit Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Always based on looks isn't it? For me, anyone who would have sex with me without a solid and well founded commitment is the one I would just f***. The ones that would need a commitment before sex, would be the type I would marry. Easy to remember, and easy to work with.
SmoochieFace Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Real simple: all sluts are *f***able* - all other women are *marryable*.
Art_Critic Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Real simple: all sluts are *f***able* - all other women are *marryable*. Now Define SLUT
alphamale Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Now Define SLUT yeah! and what a bout the reformed slut who has now seen the errors of her ways and has repented and asked God for forgiveness so that she does not rot in hell for all eternity surrounded with cockroaches and having Liberace as her cell-mate and a yeast infection that won't go away? What about her??? Is she now eligible as marriage material?
SmoochieFace Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Now Define SLUT That one is easy too: those women who f*** around for the sake of f***ing around. With no emotional connections, of course, and they will have multiple partners too as they either cannot or will not commit to any one person for any length of time exceeding the actual f*** sessions. Also includes women who f*** for cash or any other *favours*.
SmoochieFace Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 What about her??? Is she now eligible as marriage material? As long as she doesn't test positive for the chirpies or any other STD. If I'm gonna be married I'm not gonna be wearing any latex on my coq while I'm pounding her so she damn well better be *clean* otherwise she won't be hearing "I do" from me - she'll be hearing "f*** you!" instead!
Author loveheart59 Posted November 18, 2005 Author Posted November 18, 2005 I tend to find its easier for girls to forgive guys past sexual endevors than vice versa. I havent "laid down with a man" yet (dont believe in sex without love) but guys treat me like a princess. Theres something attractive to guys about a good looking virgin, dont know what. Ive been told by a friend that Im seen as a "challenge". Flattering! Anyways I do get treated different from my friends whove spread it about a bit. Which is nice, my friend (who only has sex once a year) gets treated the same too. Possibly its because weve both got babyfaces, more innocent?
SmoochieFace Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Theres something attractive to guys about a good looking virgin, dont know what. That's easy to explain as well: Guys like to be *first*. It's a pride thing. Nothing complicated about it.
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