agnf666 Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 I have tons of guy issues... I go through periods in my life were I have no guys... to were I have like 2 or 3 at a time.... It sucks because I usually pick the wrong ones... obviously because I'm not with any of them... Anyways... I might have a new guy... So, Saturday night I was suppose to pick my friend up at her house and go back to mine just to chill like we always do...Before I left work she calls and tells me that some guy that we use to go to school with wants to hang out. Now, he is one of her friends. In which, I had no problem with that. So, we hang out with him... it was really fun... Now... my friend actually has a boyfriend. So, I thought it was a little ironic how me being single and this guy being single... Then when we get to back to her house... he asks us to go out on monday. So, I wasn't thinking to much of it... He was kindof flirting with me alittle... Then we get into my car and me friend says "I got to tell you something?" I was like "What?" She says "He thinks your cute and wants to hang out with you agian..." I was like "Cool..."... Then he calls her and reminds her to have that talk with me... So, then monday night comes around and me, my friend and her boyfriend and this guy hang out... kindof a double date thing.. .almost... So, that was awesome... Since monday we have been talking online a good bit.. So, something might go good with this... but...' He drinks alot... I don't know yet as too how much but alot... 6 months ago he got out of a 4 year relationship that was really bad... They were engaged and everything. He still has her number in his phone and he does mention her time to time but it is always bad things... So, my guard is still up with this one... I hope this works out... any advice...
MnkyGirl Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 I wouldn't worry about his drinking unless you actually are around it. Did he drink a lot the times you hung out with him? I am sure he has had some difficult relationship in life, who hasn't? you can't hold it against him, who cares if he has her number, he is hanging out with you and likes you. If you want the relationship to go right and you want things to happen then take it slow don't rush it with him, get to know him better and talk to him about things. I think you are stressing about issues way too early in the relationship. If you two aren't even dating and have doubts about him that isn't good either. Just take things slow, hang out and have fun, don't jump in. Get to know him and his past and what he wants in life, make sure he is a good guy so you don't go back into a relationship like your past relationships...
Author agnf666 Posted November 16, 2005 Author Posted November 16, 2005 He is a good guy... I do know him a little from being in school with him... Well.. the both times we went out he drank... Yah... I guess I shouldn't worry about this stuff and just go with the flow of things...
Author agnf666 Posted January 11, 2006 Author Posted January 11, 2006 I wouldn't worry about his drinking unless you actually are around it. Did he drink a lot the times you hung out with him? I am sure he has had some difficult relationship in life, who hasn't? you can't hold it against him, who cares if he has her number, he is hanging out with you and likes you. If you want the relationship to go right and you want things to happen then take it slow don't rush it with him, get to know him better and talk to him about things. I think you are stressing about issues way too early in the relationship. If you two aren't even dating and have doubts about him that isn't good either. Just take things slow, hang out and have fun, don't jump in. Get to know him and his past and what he wants in life, make sure he is a good guy so you don't go back into a relationship like your past relationships... Thanks for the advice... I just wanted to let you know that We are now dating... We have been for about a month now. He doesn't drink all that much now since he is with me and I am underage. So, things are good. I know I was stressing about that for no reason. So, I am over that and in a happy and comfortable relationship:love: !!! Thanks for the advice...
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