Jackripp Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 So we have been broke up for4 or so months. Latley she has been comming over, somtimes staying the night, but we just kiss and sleep together, nothing real sexual. Anyways she always tells me things like, "I can't listen to the radio in my car because every song reminds me of you" Or "I sleep with a pillow and pretend its you" and "i miss this so much" She wouldnt have any of this for the four months prior. Also she is now saying she knows she wants to be with somone like me and she knows she is going to want me back. Progress or just loneliness on her part? JR
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 that sounds like a nitemare! you should ask her, what is this about and sort it out once and for all! ouch!
J dub Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 >Latley she has been comming over, somtimes staying the night, but we just kiss and sleep together, nothing real sexual. This is a big mistake. You need to allow for her to MISS you before she's going to want to come back. Right now she is getting the "Fix" of you she needs to keep her distance. >"I can't listen to the radio in my car because every song reminds me of you" Or "I sleep with a pillow and pretend its you" and "i miss this so much" Shes telling u what u want to hear. >she is now saying she knows she wants to be with somone like me Someone LIKE you, but not you. >and she knows she is going to want me back. Shes going to huh? Then why not right now? shes stringin you along pal, and you are being nothing but the enabler by allowing it. >Progress or just loneliness on her part? You dont even need to ask, you know the answer.
Ruff Ryder Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 I have to say im with jdub on this one man. Tell her to make a move atleast for now. If she misses what she once have she mat want it back but right now she is eating her cake too.... Have a good one
chocolate_boy Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 Only speaking from personal experience, but the 4-5 month mark for me was when I suddenly started to miss my ex (going back few years here). I broke up with her and got with a new girl (rebound) but 4 months after we split I started to miss her, then 5 months I wanted her back, but she told me to take a hike (well done her!). I have heard this happen with others once the rebound wears off (either overtly enjoying single life or a new partner immediately after the break), but I wasn't sure if it was more of a guy thing. Either way only you know if you want her back, I wouldn't be too hopeful yet though, take it slow. However I wouldn't also tell her to get out, just keep doing what you are but play it very cool, don't go talking about emotions and advancing it, let her do it all.
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