ashley83 Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 Me and my boyfriend have a semi-long distance relationship. We live 2 hours away from each other in the same state. Well he goes off on a hunting trip to NY 700 miles away for 3 weeks and doesn't even call me before he leaves, and when I call him he's in Virginia. The phone call didn't even last for 2 minutes when he says, "I'm gotta go because I'm in a lot traffic and um the long distance charges." Keep in mind he has a great job. So I said, admit it's just because of the long distance charges, and he's like "yeah, I admit it's just because of that." So he says he loves me, i didn't, and we hung up. I think that he has a good job, so he can at least talk to me for a 10 minutes being that I AM HIS GIRLFRIEND. He did say he'd buy a calling card when he gets there. Am I being too sensitive?? Does this mean that he doesn't love me?
Art_Critic Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 Well it is hunting season I don't think he thinks of you as his girlfriend.. Something is up and yes your have a right to be upset.
Author ashley83 Posted November 16, 2005 Author Posted November 16, 2005 I was very mean to him a couple of days ago. I apologized. That may be why, but I dunno I just miss him and I worry that I'm being too sensitive.
oh_what_am_I_doing Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 I would be furious. You definitely have a right to be feeling upset with him. He is not treating you like a girlfriend. Was he on roaming when you called him? I can MAYBE understand if he had said something like this, "Sweetie, I'm roaming right now. Can I give you a call back in a little bit when I reach civilation?" But, like you said, he has the money to pay for a five or ten minute phone call, at the very least. The fact that he cut the conversation off at two minutes is not a good sign. Also, the fact that he left without calling you isn't good.
itwontdawnsooner Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 if you were "very mean" to him a couple of days ago, even if you apologized it could still be affecting him. that don't go away instantly. nobody's perfect, sure, sometimes u lose it, but at the same time doing the he says i love you you not saying it back thing and him not calling you means youre possibly both upset you both seem to have reasons to be. the other poster is right, hes not treating you like a girlfriend... it can be damn hard to be completely direct and honest with the person youre with if youre in an emotional state and not clear yourself one way or another you have to talk about it, and for more than 2 minutes if he cant at least talk to you hes just being immature about it... being semi-LDR its even more important to talk via phone, im not sure what hes doin.
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