shyguy1126 Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 There is a girl in my school (High School) i liked her for the longest time it usta just b a little crush until last year when she found out i liked her and now i feel somthing more for her, and when she found out it seemed like she was interested she always stared but i never talked to her and durin the summer i changed my look i usta b anotha white boy dressing black and i wear tighter clothes and i worked out alot (just to impress her) and she started looking again but then sometimes she doesnt and one time she was playing a soccer game and she was far away and she kept looking for along time and same with me and other times wen we were far away but wen i get close she turns we never talked do you think she wouldve talked to me if she was really interested or no and i think i cant talk to her becuz she is so pretty and i know im a good looking guy but i dont want her not to want me, i put the story up b4 and got just go up to her and say hi etc.. i cant i dont have the same friends as her we dont hav ne the same classes and i only see her for like 2 seconds in the hall WHAT SHOULD I DO PLZ I need to talk to her is there any other signs i can look for to tell if she is interested
MnkyGirl Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 Well there really isn't any signs other than her looking at you...you have to actually talk to her to tell if she likes you. You are going to have to grow some ba...ummm get some guts and go up and talk to her...just walk up and say hi. If she says hello ask her how she is doing or talk about something...just make it casual...You will have to approach her sometime if you want to get to know her, remember if you wait too long another guy could be doing the same thing and talk to her first... Make the move, talk to her
loveheart59 Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 Trust me she likes you, I can tell these things. Theres a possibility she is shy too thats why she turns away when you get closer. If you have any courage you could do something cute like next time she stares at you, walk up to her and drop her a note that says "Hi". Enough to open the gates to conversation next time you see her or the possibility of a smile would work wonders. If youv'e got more spunk you could say something witty but this isnt reccomended for amateurs. Basically if she stares at you for ages but doesnt start laughing, she likes you but is quite traditional (wants to be approached by the man so she does't come accross too forward) Good luck, from Sam
Author shyguy1126 Posted November 18, 2005 Author Posted November 18, 2005 how can you tell cuz sometimes it seems like she could care less and i work with this kid she is friends with and she has seen me say hi to him but she didnt tell him anything bout me like o i think hes cute or w\e does that matter? and im gonna go up to her and say hi but i dont know what else to say i dont want to say hi and just stand there like a idiot and im gonna ask her if i can walk her to class and if she says yes i will ask what class and if she likes it(or stupid ?)? and i dont know what else what do you think?
loveheart59 Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 Why the f**k dont you give this friend of hers a note or a message to pass on!!! Ever talked about missin an opportunity. She wants you big time but please dont ask her if she likes her class because you'll look quite dumb (unless she finds you cute by default). Trust me, if your not confident enough to hold a conversation then wtite her something and pass it on. Chances are she'll write you back, then you can start talking naturally. How old are you by the way. She probrably feels as hopeless as you, youre both as bad as each other! Once again good luck. P.S: there are many reasons why she wouldnt have said anything about you to this friend. Including not opening their big mouth and being a good friend.
Author shyguy1126 Posted November 18, 2005 Author Posted November 18, 2005 Im 17 shes 16 i was gonna go talk to her today and she went up to some guy and was standing there with him and talking so i made it seem like i was just walking that way and as i pasted i think i heard her say i hate that kid i never talked to her so i dont know how she can hate me, im thinking im jus imagining things or something or like i think i hear cuz im nervous when im around or im just expecting her to say it or somthing you know either that or she really did say or about some1 else what do you think P.S. i figured that wud sound stupid " uh do you like that class duh" and i still dont know how u can tell, its because i havnt had much experiance with it i was going out with one girl for like 3 years until i saw this girl and i had other girlfriends but i was always friends with them b4 i liked them so i didnt have to do the approach.. And thanks for the advice
loveheart59 Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 Ive just been thinkin about this situation and it is really hard. If you had something in common like classes you would have a starting ground but you have to go totally solo. ...but, at the end of the day the only thing she can say is no. And since people know you fancy her already the embarrasment will probrably be forgotten quite fast. I think you were possibly imagining what she said to you, but if you werent then she must be quite a fiesty outspoken person. In which case she would have made some kind of contact with you by now. Do you know anything about her personality or do you only admire her for looks? Has she got a boyfriend? Are you white middle class or working class and what is she, need more info! I will get to the bottom of this:). When you say youre good looking, do you mean youre someone that people usually fancy or just alright looking?
Author shyguy1126 Posted November 23, 2005 Author Posted November 23, 2005 i dont know what you mean by class. im white,so is she c thats the thing i dont know her but i feel like im in love with her lol(kinda corny) i guess her looks. im better then alright but i aint the hottest but i know im much better looking then her last 2 boyfriends (there the only ones i seen) also there is a girl in one of my classes everyday as bell rings my seat is by the door as she i leaving she looks at me(not weirdly like ima freak) what does mean cuz everyday that what she does nothing else just that
IrishCarBomb Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 Grow up. Just go for it. You have no idea how anything works, and neither does she. You want a script. You want me to tell you exactly what to say to get her to go out with you. That is impossible, and also completely unnecessary. You may say something stupid, you may get rejected... but even if that happens you'll be better off than you started. You have nothing to lose. She's already not dating you. She can't NOT date you any less. So just talk to her. TALK to HER. Don't go through her friends, don't spread rumors, don't pass notes, don't do stupid high school ****. I love high school kids... they overdramatize everything.
loveheart59 Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 I thought they were in high school? The whole problem is that he is SHY!!! Its easier said than done to just say go for it, maybe for people like you or me that would be easy but hes been trying to go up to her for up to a year! For your information many adults get together through friends,or family " I have a friend that you would be interested in..." ect so dont get on you're high horse just because you have a direct, confident personality.
loveheart59 Posted November 23, 2005 Posted November 23, 2005 ...and to ShyGuy if shes in the same as you and her ex boyfriends arent as nice as you then she probrably does fancy you. If you wait anymore she may get sick of you dithering around so get onto it! P.S: Im surprised that you dont even know her personality, what if youve been following her around all this time then you dont get on. You need to find out so you dont waste anymore time. Technically youre not in love, in lust more like it:o
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