ihope4u Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 ok how to start...so there is this guy that i know for 3 years i have seen him 4 times when i go down to my country for vacation he is 29 and i am 19... i think he is really hot and i am very attracted to him. We have been mailing each other for all those years but the last time that i went there was different we spend a lot of time together and got to know each other better. now that we chat almos every week or more he is saying all this stuff that just confuses me. i can explain it but he is been very much getting into me at first i was like ok if he wants to fool around and when i get there something will happen is ok we don't need to get involve. but now i am having feelings witch is bad, because he is so far and i don't know what he wants. he is very concer about me and my life. he is always very sweet to me like today we chat and he said he is happy because i am happy, thinks like that that just make me want to hit him because he is making me overthink things. i don't know what to do if he likes me ok i can go with it and if it gets serious we'll see how to work the distance, but if he is just attracted to me, can i still go for it like i wanted to. so far he is so different from someone that i ve meet before no because he is older, i chill with people older than me alot, but there is something that i realllllly like about him. and i would like to lose his friendship. i need HELP please sm
Author ihope4u Posted November 17, 2005 Author Posted November 17, 2005 ok come on here nedding help i am desperate u guys come on........
JS17 Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 I wouldn't bank on a serious relationship here. Maybe friends, maybe a physical relationship, but something serious would not be the norm in this situation....you never know, it has happened.
Author ihope4u Posted November 21, 2005 Author Posted November 21, 2005 well i wanted that from the beginning jst a physical thing but we can still talk but we would be attach to each other if he wanted to be with someone i could and i could, but he says thinks that make me want something else he is so sweet to me i jst dunno if to tell him to stop it or follow it.....i dunnno what to do
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