lovehurts1983 Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 Ok...I need some help. My and my now ex BF met at a job 2 years ago(October '03). We were both dating other people at the time. Both of those relationships ended around the same time. We started hanging out and becoming intimate with each other. He was the only man I was with , but I am unsure if I was the only girl he was with. After about six months (We are in March now)of that we became a "couple". Officially we were dating and things were better than great. We spent all of our time together and we were both glowing. I had heard of his past which involved him lying and cheating and I kept a close eye on him. I started to catch him in lies (even about other girls and where he was going). But I forgave him each time because he told me he screwed up and it would never happen again. He had told girls that he didn't have a girlfriend and stuff like that. So, i forgave him and we were ok. I caught him again telling a girl that he was single through an email in Aug 05 so now weve been seeing each other for about a year and a half. I told him I didn't want to speak to him and he begged for my forgiveness and a few weeks later we were back together. Since then, things had been weird and feeling awkward and we decided to take a break in mid october(he initiated it). Two days later he begged for me back and said he was ready to give 100%, he wanted it to work and he wanted to marry me some day. Well that lasted for 2 weeks and he went back to his old ways and we got into an argument and finally last week he broke up with me and said its over and not meant to be...2 days later he says he just needs some time for himself and he doesnt want to see other girls or get over me he would just rather be unsure now than in 10 years and he needs to do this now. But he said he doesn't want me to move on and he wants to still be best friends and for now and ahh...i dont know what to do. Do I let go? Do I wait for him and believe that he wants this? Or is he bull****ting me to save my feelings or to keep me around to see if something else comes along? I haven't called him and he texted me once and I didn't respond. Help , do i talk to him and say how i feel or give him his space? Guys, what are your opinions on this? What is he really saying/doing?
lilmrsdrama420 Posted November 16, 2005 Posted November 16, 2005 my ex did the same to me.... my advice to you is to leave him alone because he may have found someone else.... listen to your heart and your gut...
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