Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 I oft strike poses to show my best feature (my butt). When in good shape I find reason to bend backward a little to show off the flat abs. Twice I've deliberately fallen to the ground, to impress women with my patented;) moves to spring to my feet. The key is to fall as a big joke, not being clumsly. In my 40's now, this move is getting less impressive! What moves do you guys make to attract ladies.? Ladies, what guy moves do you like, dislike?
Walk Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 Egotistical men who think they are attempting to impress me with a "patented" move are a real turn off for me. Natural, non-posed, situations often strike me as extremely sexy. The way the light casts shadow on a man's chest. Or when he's walking to the bathroom naked after good sex, and I can watch his ass as he walks. Those are sexy. Poses and faked situations leave me feeling like I'm dealing with a 15 yr old. Unless he's making fun of himself. Then it can show he's very confident in who he is.
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 What moves do you guys make to attract ladies.? Ladies, what guy moves do you like, dislike? Have you ever tried humility? .
Author Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 What are you a peacock? I wish! Come on now, everybody struts now and then...how about you?
Craig Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 Pulling my black american express card out of my old jeans gets me all the attention I need.
Author Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 Egotistical men who think they are attempting to impress me with a "patented" move are a real turn off for me. Natural, non-posed, situations often strike me as extremely sexy. The way the light casts shadow on a man's chest. Or when he's walking to the bathroom naked after good sex, and I can watch his ass as he walks. Those are sexy. Poses and faked situations leave me feeling like I'm dealing with a 15 yr old. OK, no poses after sex. I need poses to get me into sex first.
Author Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 Have you ever tried humility? . love it. but never tried it.
Hot Coco Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 I wish! Come on now, everybody struts now and then...how about you? Nope. I don't strut and I'd divorce my H if he ever did. It's so fake. Walk put it very well. Sex-appeal comes naturally and you either got it or you don't. Let's just say that I don't HAVE to strut!
Author Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 Pulling my black american express card out of my old jeans gets me all the attention I need. Will I never live it down?
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 1. What moves do you guys make to attract ladies.? 2. Ladies, what guy moves do you like, dislike? 1. Ones done with confidence, in which she is the center of attention (but in a 'by choice' sort of way, not a 'needy' sort of way) - not ones in which the guy is the center of attention (preening like you described). When a woman is attracted she'll see your good spots without you having to accenuate them. Here's an example you might find useful in switching the genders. Lets say you have two women, both who have magnificent sets of breasts. One of them has them shoved into a push up bra and falling out of her shirt. The other has a nice silk shirt which clings softly to them and outlines the shape without revealing the breast. Which do you find more intriguing? The blatant 'look at me' tits, or the hidden-but-accenuated breasts? 2. Confidence without neediness. Showing that you are chosen by this guy, and not 'needed' by him to stroke his ego. A man's ego should be big enough where he doesn't need to be validated by a woman's attention (but not too big - if your ego is too big, it shows overcompensation for possible negative things). You shouldn't have to 'show off' your good parts. You should be confident enough to know she is going to notice them anyway. Have you read "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" by Neil Strauss? Its a far out sort of book, and some of it makes me do this: or this but there are some interesting points scattered throughout about attraction and some interesting scenarios of being shot down and why. Worth checking out - you may find it interesting.
Walk Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 OK, no poses after sex. I need poses to get me into sex first. She's at your place and you want to get her in bed. Walk over to her, stand really close to her so that you're inside of her personal space zone. Touch her hair and tell her she's beautiful. Look deep into her eyes, and then fall flat on the floor and start humping the air. She'll think it's so sexy that she'll fall on top of you.
Hot Coco Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 LB, you're asking a MAN which set of tits he'd rather see???!!! (The obvious ones spilling out or the subtly outlined ones)
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 LB, you're asking a MAN which set of tits he'd rather see???!!! (The obvious ones spilling out or the subtly outlined ones) You'd be surprised. The ones hanging out catch the eye. The other ones catch the imagination.
Author Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 She's at your place and you want to get her in bed. Walk over to her, stand really close to her so that you're inside of her personal space zone. Touch her hair and tell her she's beautiful. Look deep into her eyes, and then fall flat on the floor and start humping the air. She'll think it's so sexy that she'll fall on top of you. LOL LOL
933KJL Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 HEre we go again. Mike, you sure that is not you? Ask you nun or the MS
Author Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 You'd be surprised. The ones hanging out catch the eye. The other ones catch the imagination. I do like the classy female more. But would want to spend time with all 4 breasts.
alphamale Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 What moves do you guys make to attract ladies.? When I valet my red Ferrari GTB which cost me $160,000 and does 0-60 in 4.5 seconds flat...
elijahBailey Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 What moves do you guys make to attract ladies.? c'mon GP, if you don't have no confidence, you can master all the moves and the ladies will still be like , whereas, if you're confident, they'll sniff you out a mile away. It's appears to me yer barkin' up the wrong tree dude
ThumbingMyWay Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 You'd be surprised. The ones hanging out catch the eye. The other ones catch the imagination. right on...
933KJL Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 When I tell her that my favorite position is Doggie Style and she knows I mean it!
Hot Coco Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 You'd be surprised. The ones hanging out catch the eye. The other ones catch the imagination. I completely agree with you (as a woman.) I'm just saying I don't think most men would see it that way.
whichwayisup Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 I oft strike poses to show my best feature (my butt). When in good shape I find reason to bend backward a little to show off the flat abs. Twice I've deliberately fallen to the ground, to impress women with my patented;) moves to spring to my feet. The key is to fall as a big joke, not being clumsly. In my 40's now, this move is getting less impressive! What moves do you guys make to attract ladies.? Ladies, what guy moves do you like, dislike? What I hilighted in bold - If a guy did that to impress me, or did it to make me "see" his abs, I'd laugh and think what an idiot! Sorry - That kind of show off thing doesn't DO it for me at all, lol. I want the guy to be himself and not try so hard to impress me. GP, just be yourself, show her what's inside you because that is what the glue is that will give you another date - Not your abs and bum. Just my 2 cents...
Author Gold Pile Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 16 posts and not one pose yet. C'mon people....help
elijahBailey Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 16 posts and not one pose yet. C'mon people....help say, did ANY of your poses or moves bag you a chick?
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