lilmoma1973 Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 Ok i need some advice about this situation with the inlaws...My inlaws hate me and want to do anything they can to create problems with me and my h.. My mil and fil are the inlaws from hell!! They want to control my h life and make all the rules and tell him who to be with... My fil use to like me till he got with my mil .. His wife died with cancer she was in remission till it went to her brain and hit her quick .. She was a great women and i loved her dearly!! My mil always talked about her because she had my fil and she caused conflict and always cause problems in his marriage.. Well the day my mil wasn't even in the ground 24hrs and she was bashing her .. She set out to conquer my fil and did..His wife died in April and they got together in July .. Just few months after his wife died and she done made the moves on him she had made comments to me that he wouldn't be single long and she was right and she made sure of it... My fil got my h to leave his good paying job w/benefits and come work with him saying that my h would take over the buisness.. Boy was that a lie .. He left his job working with Duke Power to go to roofing what a dumbass was he ..His dad painted him a pretty picture saying he would make alot of money and wouldn't have to worry about nothing!!!! He didn't make but a 100 a wk and had no benefits .. i couldn't even pay for my daughters shots to start kindergarden .. I had to go to social services because we went from insurance to no insurance and without insurance it was going to cost 95 dollars .. Well got her shots she went to school then i had to pick her up constantly cause she was sick come to find out she had severe allergies and had to be put on meds such as Zyrtec and Singular she stayed sick and a total of 45 days was missed from her .. I would send her and the teachers would call me to pick her up she was running a fever and she wouldn't make it to the cutoff is 11:30 and they usually called me by 10:00 that morning .. One time they called i just dropped her off came in the door and had to run back and get her... My fil would make comments about why did i have to take her to the drs so much and then my h would say the same and it was pissing me off severely!! Me and my h grew apart because his jackrabbit of a dad saying crap !! I moved out moved in with my mom and told my h he had to make a choice whether he leave his job with his dad and go back to his good paying job with benefits or it is over!! It took a toll on us financially and even was lacking food my mom helped us his dad acted like it bothered him if we needed money !! I was on the verge of going to work .. We was going to counseling through this whole ordeal and my counselor told my h to leave the job with his dad and go back to the other you got to think what is best for you and your family!!!! So he went back to his job and found out he lost his 3 wk vacation with pay because all this crap.. I didn't think was a good idea from the get go and so now we are a 1yr later and him and his dad hasn't talked and i was glad till he came to ss game and h seen where he was trying and started back talking now me and h are at each other's throat because of it .. I think he owes h and i an apology and think it should take more than him coming to ss game !! Me and h aren't on talking terms as i am typing he is mad because i wouldn't go eat over his dad's house and kiss ass !!!H said i was being childish and that i need to grow up!!! My fil has said ugly things about me called me a bitch,mooch and said all i wanted my h for was money !! WTF not true he don't have a pot to piss in!! lol My fil has made countless promises and never fufilled them ..He promised my daughter a wooden swingset w/sandbox ,playhouse,us two decks ,help us remodel our house,finish the buidling he and my h was building ..His grandchild from his ss he made her a swingsetw/sandbox,built the deck for his other son and is payingall his bills power,phone,cable etc.. My fil and mil treat my our daughter as a outcast and treats h son from previous relationship like he is gold!! My daughter is scared of this man and thinks he is mean and i can't blame her!! He is mean, coldhearted ,greedy and coniving man!!! I don't like to be around him because he makes people around him turn like him mainly my h !! My h has his bad temper and hate when he acts like him.. He wants everyone to kiss his ass in order to be in his good graces's !! Am i wrong for feeling this way!!! I really don't care to associate with them and it is causing friction in my marriage !! He was never in his life too much so why should it matter now!! Sorry so long needed to vent!!
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