Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 i have a question for all of you please reply....when you care for someone alot mean that u love them? or is it not nessasary to love them to care about them?
Outcast Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 .when you care for someone alot mean that u love them? Not necessarily.
mrB2006 Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 To a certain degree I believe that if you care for someone you love them. As in my situation, I realize that I don't have a chance with her, but I still love her (because she was such a part of my life). I guess it just depends on your situation....
Author Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 so lets say that some guy kisses his ex and does things with her (when he sees her..like kissing and stuff) and the girl asks why do those things if he "loves" his gf..and he just says "i really care about her alot i really do, but its just when im with you i feel different" ...thats not showing he loves his gf right?
Walk Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 Let me get this right... Your the ex, he comes over and you make out and possible have sex, but he's got a gf back home who thinks he's being sweet and innocent?
Author Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 no no no no not having sex AT ALL...just acting like they go out u know...but lets say hes having problems with his gf.....and he didnt think this relationship with him and her turned out like he thought it would...like for example the girl gets mad for nothing and is always in a bad mood with him and treating him bad and being a straight up bitch! lol but the ex is the exact opposite..and till now he see s that he made a mistake....(better explanation now???) lol
Walk Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 I think... guy is probably over exaggerating gf behavior to make excuses for why he wants to nail the ex. Otherwise bf would've dumped gf. I think you've got a sticky situation on your hands, and you better ultimatum the exbf and let him know you're not going to be the other woman. But if he finds himself free of the gf, then you could try dating again.
Author Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted November 20, 2005 Author Posted November 20, 2005 yea...they broke up...she was very abusive with him....but the thing is ...i have a bf while we both have feelings for each other so i cant be the other woman.. he is also the "other man".....lol.....
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