The Dave Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Hey all. So I've been seeing this girl for the past month or so and I basically need advice on how to end a good thing. She's great, we're good together and everything else but I'm afraid that it's getting too serious. This bothers me in relation to how I'm not over my ex, this is my first time being 'single' in four years and don't think I should be jumping into another relationship and part of me worries that I may be sub-conciously 'using' her to fill a hole that was left behind by my ex. The only catch is that we've become really good friends and I can't see anyway of maintaining that afterwards. So does anybody know the best way to end a good relationship?
NrclptcNSmniak Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 if it's a good thing then theres no point in ending it based on only your fears. you should talk about it with her. tell her that you might not be over your x and that your afraid of her just being a plug to fill the hole left behind by your x. most people would be able to understand what kind of situation you're in. if she isn't comfortable with it then suggest to put the relationship on hold and resume it at another time, if shes willing to wait for you anyway. just talk with her about it.
Author The Dave Posted November 17, 2005 Author Posted November 17, 2005 Yeah...I figured talking to her is the best thing. But for all the time I've been thinking about this, I can't seem to think of any 'good' way to do it. I don't want to hurt her or for her to feel un-wanted or rejected. I don't feel I can make this right.
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