Is this a good response when someone says i love you...but youre not quite there yet?

[almostthere]

My bf and I were out and about Thursday night. He hinted on about love. I am divorced and while not a commitment phobe...i dont fall in love quickly or easily. I think its just that I havent met the guy who can do it for me.

 

Anyway...I know he is starting to develope strong feelings for me. I can tell by the way he is...emotionally, physically and mentally towards me.

 

If he says I love you....would it be rude if I said I am falling in love with you too. I am in the process of. if that makes any sense. I think about living together (slightly), we are planning vacations together, we are sharing packs of cigarettes, we go everywhere together, he drives my car (and no one but me can well...before him). So I know my feelings are developing too. But not enough to straight out say I love you. But to admit that I am falling in love with him.

 

So...what do you think?

[a4a]

Hey why not hand him the new Neiman Marcus catalog when he says this and tell him " I think I could fall in love with you too"

 

Just kidding........ take the time to explain your feelings..... do not say what you do not mean and do not be pressured into saying things you do not mean to simply spare ones feelings...... you will only hurt them more in the long run.

 

a4a

[Gold Pile]

Let him know how you feel NOW, B4 he says anything.

[mini696]

Just tell him the truth.

 

My ex was the same, she new I didn't say "I love you" easially, or without meaning it. I said it a month or two before she did, but when she was sure I was so happy because it meant a lot for her to have those feelings.

 

If he forces you to say it theres no meaning behind those words.