blackflame41 Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 I'm dating a girl right now who has very little experience. She had been slightly fondled before in the breasts and had her vagina touched. She says she never has masturbated nor did very much to a guy beyond fondling. I had one serious relationship in the past and we did sexual things, but no intercourse (manual and oral sex). So I became incredible obsessed with pleasing a woman. I read articles, watched videos and really studied up on it. Well recentlly I ate her ate for the first time (only the second girl I've tried it on) and she was getting "weird" feelings and tried her best to stop them for happening. The second time it happened, I asked her to relax and let things go and I think she had an orgasm. She doesn't know what it was but described it as a great tension and just a rush of relaxation. So it's kinda of hard for me to judge what she says is an orgasm since I'm not a girl and it doesn't become obvious to me, but how she described it resembled how I feel when I orgasm. But at one point she moaned out loud and asked her about it and she didn't realize she made any noise. Afterwards she became extremely affection and held me close. These are all the signs I've read about for girls having orgasms, so I'm pretty sure I gave her her first orgasm after only eating her out twice. So does this sound like a female orgasm? What could this mean for our relationship since I'm her first boyfriend to do anything sexual and I'm giving her her first orgasms. And on top of all this, she hasn't even given oral or hand to me yet. She's still nervous and I understand that and totally not rushing her (though highly anticipating), I just don't want her to become "selfish" where she's expecting all these great things from me and I'm not requiring anything in return.
ReluctantRomeo Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 So does this sound like a female orgasm? Either the destination or at least a good part of the journey, yes. What could this mean for our relationship since I'm her first boyfriend to do anything sexual and I'm giving her her first orgasms. It means: be nice to her, take it slowly and protect her heart. She's likely to fall quite hard for you.
LucreziaBorgia Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 So does this sound like a female orgasm? Sounds like it to me. Bet you both had some fun! I notice two types: the hard, fast nearly electric clit orgams which physiologically is like a sneeze (a build, followed by a nearly explosive tingling sensation that feels like shocks/throbbing, followed by extreme sensitivity of the clit - such that it can't be touched, similar to the sensitivity of the head of your penis after you ejaculate - followed by relaxation) and the vaginal orgasm which is like a series of contractions of the muscles which feels like it is 'pushing' out anything in there. Those are intense and deep but not nearly as electric as the clit orgasm.
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