Curious_George Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Hello. This question is for the ladies only. I have one small white bump on the center of my penis. I've already gotten it checked and its nothing harmless. My penis is 7.75" long and about 6" girth, so a little bigger than average. I have received oral sex before but I was wondering if any of you would consider it a big deal to perform oral sex with a penis like that. I have been shying away from intimacy lately because of it and I am obviously lacking confidence. So do I have to suck it up and deal with it or what? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks
Tattoo4u Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 To be blunt...yes, I would be uncomfortable. If you've had it checked out like you said and it is, in fact, "nothing". I would try discussing it with the other person first. Giving her a heads up (hahaha no pun intended) along with your side of the story might make it a little easier for the both of you. I have a little experience in this. When I first started dating my ex, he told me that he had genital warts. To be honest, I was really shocked and turned off at first. Then, I did some research and discovered how common it was. I REALLY appreciated how honest and forthcoming he was. It ended up not being much of an issue after that. I'm not saying that's what you have, I'm just trying to relay the importance of being truthful and upfront about stuff like this.
Tattoo4u Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 By the way, the size of your penis has absolutely nothing to do with your question. It really could have been left out.
bunnzy Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 aww, tattoo, you know he was just trying to be more confident - and he should be, thats a very decent size!!! My fiance told me about how he burnt himself when younger so when i saw some burn scars on his penis i wouldnt freak out. I appreciated it. I have told the complete story on another thread ... 'stupid things we did as kids' some funny stuff on that thread. All in all be comfortable with who you are. Some guys freak out because they are bent, or long and thin, or short and fat, or veiny or wrinkly, but it really doesnt matter, as long as you treat the girl right and are honest and real with her.
Tattoo4u Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 You're right bunnzy...I'm just a little annoyed with over-confident men right now. I shouldn't have snapped...Go ahead George!!! Be Proud!!!
933KJL Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 I've already gotten it checked and its nothing harmless. If it is nothing harmless, then it MUST be harmful. Gotta watch out for those double negatives!
Tangerina Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Hopefully if you are getting a BJ ou are at least on the kind of terms with the person where you coud say... hey, I got a bump, its nothing...
lilmoma1973 Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 I would get a second opinion just to be on the safe side you don't want to being giving someone else a std if that is what you have !! I think it sounds like gential warts and if that is you need to be treated immediately !! Does it burn or itch ? Goodluck:D
933KJL Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Hell, just what it off with a good old carving knife.
whichwayisup Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Maybe it's a fatty cyst or something, or an ingrown hair that now has turned into a bump. Have you tried to squeeze it? Could be a pimple. If your doc told ya it's nothing to worry about, don't worry about it. Or try not to.
933KJL Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Could be a pimple. Eeeew...nothing worse than a pussy penis pimple (That is puss-y not pussy)
Walk Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Personally, I'd freak out if you didn't tell me before hand. And you better know the girl well enough for her to trust you. Men will lie their asses off to get a girl in bed. I head south and you've got bumps on you, I'm probably gonna head for the door without bothering to ask what that is.
butterflykzz Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 If you have "had oral sex before" was the bump there at the time? How was the reaction? My advice: honesty, honesty, honesty!! And when you find someone, they should love you, warts and all (no pun intended) We all have flaws and when someone loves you, truly loves you it doesn't matter, no if, ands, or buts) So, find yourself a girl who cares is loving and loves you...for you. If I dated a guy and he had it checked AND told me about it beforehand, it wouldn't "turn me off" at all. Esp. if I loved him.
RecordProducer Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 I wouldn't mind any bump as long as I am content with the size and erection and like the guy overall. I wouldn't even pay attention to it,except maybe just ask what is is out of mere curiosity.
RecordProducer Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 My advice: honesty, honesty, honesty!!If I dated a guy and he had it checked AND told me about it beforehand, it wouldn't "turn me off" at all. Esp. if I loved him. So he should say: "Hello, my name is George, I am a student at medical school, live in the suburb, and I have a bump on my penis "? Whta' sthe big deal? It's juts a bump for god's sake, it's not a bad smell or a pimple!
Walk Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 So he should say: "Hello, my name is George, I am a student at medical school, live in the suburb, and I have a bump on my penis "? Whta' sthe big deal? It's juts a bump for god's sake, it's not a bad smell or a pimple! HA. Yeah, that's smart. Don't worry about a "little ole bump", then find out a few months later that you've got some kind of infectious STD. Sa-weet. As a woman. Aint nothing going in my mouth, or any other hole, if it's got bumps, scabs, oozes weird stuff, or if the guy won't even let me see it prior to intercourse. That's like taking a little white pill from a guy and not knowing what it is. It's naive, and potentially deadly.
Lost_Boy Posted November 17, 2005 Posted November 17, 2005 Well I'm brand new here and i have a strange penis too.(melodramatic pause) The best and worst thing you can do is tell the girl about it. 9 times out of 10 women will tell their closest friends about it; Especially if you insist on oral sex. just accept that there will be hits and misses.
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